Is it normal to be pretty but not attractive or hot?

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I get told all the time by girls and sometimes guys that I'm really pretty, but no one ever likes me. I'm kind of shy, but when people talk to me I try to be really nice and keep the conversation going. My friends say I'm the nice pretty friend. I just don't understand how I can be called pretty by so many people tell me I'm pretty but I've never been like by a guy. I've tried kind of talking to guys that I've liked before but they've never shown any interest in me.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    It's likely that there has been at least someone somewhere along the line that has found you attractive, but kept it to themselves for some reason or another (i.e. didn't have the guts to shoot their shot, were already in a relationship, etc.), so you've never found out about it. I've found out years later that certain people liked me at one point, but had no clue at the time. If you're young, it could just be that too, as I know plenty of people who were physically attractive, yet weren't approached by anyone until they were past adolescence.

    It could also be that you don't put yourself out there enough, or have surrounded yourself with men who are looking for something else.

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  • JustJazzin
    2 years ago

    Are you the pretty type of girl that is intimidating to men? Maybe they’re afraid to pull the trigger and ask you out lol

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  • my_life_my_way
    2 years ago

    It’s because you’re quiet. I’d say I’m alright looking but I was painfully shy in school and guys never liked me where as fat troll girls who were confident had boyfriends. Just stop being quiet

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    A person can have nice features but not be attractive because of their personality. If you don’t love yourself, others probably won’t.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    Probably your shyness. Try asking people questions about themselves. I'm sure you're a beautiful human.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Sometimes shyness can make a person look unapproachable, and or even intimidating.

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  • EnglishLad
    2 years ago

    Did you go through your late teens and early 20s rejecting the nice guys and chasing the 6 foot plus guys with gym bods, because you found them more attractive, but now you're unable to tie them down because they have so much interest from other women?

    Maybe you're in your epiphany phase where you'll now accept any guy who's willing to give it a shot with you because you can't seem to get guys you find you actually find attractive to commit anymore?

    This is why so many modern women are unable to find love. Their track records with guys speak volumes and they never want to accept their flaws. Even beta-bucks deluxes hate women who can't hold themselves accountable for their past.

    You sound like the typical "I don't have a type, I just have standards, and I'm not willing to lower them" modern feminist.

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    • Curiouskitten444
      2 years ago

      How the fuck did you get this impression from the OP's post?? 😂 Perhaps you're projecting?

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