Is it normal to be sad because of someone idk? please read

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Ok today at school it was public speaking, and this lady went up who I don't know. We usually sit on the bus together but we never talk or anything. She is so sweet and kind and really is fair and is willing to helpout anyone.
So she went up, her speech was beautiful. However she had a few words not appropriate for a Catholic school (Vagina, cliteris) And I said to some people that those words weren't appropriate for a Catholic School, as well as another person should have been first because she used such vulgar language.
She was so mature and honest and the speech was beautiful I understand now.
But she found out what I said and thought I made fun of her speech. I honestly wasn't.
NOW THE REAL THING is that it hurt her so bad she was crying. I can understand why because if someone made fun of my speech I would be hurt but I didn't mean to hurt her.
But she told me on the bus that I hurt her and she was balling, I apolozied realizing her point and I said that I didn't make fun of her and her speech was beautiful, I told her what I had said to others to try and clarify this. I told her if I offended her in anyway I am sorry and I admire her maturity but kids at our school aren't mature as you, even me.
She didn't answer me but then her sister said some really mean things.
I AM SO SAD I HAVE BEEN CRYING I FEEL SO TERRIBLE WHAT CAN I DO?
It is spring break now so I can't see her as reload I don't know her number or anything because I don't know her.
But what can I do for her to forgive me? How can I make sure kids don't give me a hard time? How do u make it up to her? How do I make her feel better? How can I assure her I meant no harm inwhat I said?

Thank you for reading this but I need help :(

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    Simply tell her that you were wrong.
    There is nothing wrong with using the proper anatomical terms vagina or clitoris in any setting (when appropriate).

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    • anti-hero
      11 years ago

      I believe the proper term for vagina is suckonthis9.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    12 years ago

    I don't think you did anything wrong, except for being part of JH (rumors and hearsay travel like wild fire in JH) I agree with suckonthis9, all you can do is tell her you were wrong, and give her time to get over it. Try discouraging your friends when you hear them make fun of her, its a hard thing to do but it will help more than you know.

    P.S. The fact that you care that much about the feelings of a person you hardly know says a lot about what type of person you are. Most people wouldn't care at all about that girls feelings, you should be proud of yourself.

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  • TheWonderer
    12 years ago

    I know that NOW

    But honestly we are in JH What do you expect?

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