Is it normal to be scare of getting into a fight

When I was a little girl kids pick on me really bad to the point I just shut down and cry now it's a little more easier for me I lost weight I feel better about myself. When people do get on my nervous I start to shake up and I tighten my teeth, When this happen I go into wanted to really hurt people. So is this normal

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Based on 42 votes (34 yes)
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  • Don't keep yourself from defending yourself. If there's people picking on you, don't let them step all over you just because you don't want to get in a fight. There's other things that solve problems besides fighting.

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  • Polan

    Fighting is barbaric.Even military avoid it if they can.Ability to reason is one that make us human,different than animal.

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  • blacksheep42

    Fighting as an adult is generally frowned upon, although we all need to alleviate stress and tension from our bodies. It is a natural reaction to want to hurt people when they are provoking you, but don't let it control you. Meditating to calm these emotions works great.

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