Is it normal to be scared about having sex for the first time? (guy)

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My friend, who is a guy, is scared about having sex for the first time. He told me today and wanted my opinion. Being a girl I told him he had nothing to worry about and no girl would reject him. There is no reason he should even feel this way. I asked him why he was concerned and he responded with "I don't know I just am!". Can someone please tell me if this is normal and if there is any advice for him?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    It is scary. The chance of his banjo string breaking, his penis could be snapped by force... Not to mention STD's

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  • TheBunnie
    11 years ago

    It's not like you have to worry about your hymen exploding like girls do.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Don't worry be happy.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    He should:) I know a guy who told us that the first time he had an opportunity to lose his virginity he just couldn't find where the hole was. That's true! And a friend (girl) told me that once she made love with a younger guy and the later didn't tell her that it was her first time until she saw that the guy was bleeding.

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