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Their are a few guys that I want to ask to get a picture with me but I just can't get the nerve up to ask the situation is right. is it normal to be shy like that or am I just overreacting thinking the worse will happen and when I say the worse I guess I mean getting rejected and having people think I am weird.?
As a girl, I wouldn't want a stranger to take a picture of me. It doesn't matter what situation I'm in. I've been asked before to allow a picture to be taken of me before. I said no, but I was nice about it. Another time some guy was in the window of my job trying to take a picture of me (After I helped him and he left). Creepy. I ran and hid, hoping it didn't get taken.
It's kind of stalkerish. You seem interested in these guys romantically, regardless of their status. It's not a good thing to just take someones picture, with or without you in it. That is way you feel weird. Because you already know you shouldn't and it won't go over well. Why don't you just try to get to know them, instead?
I recently read someone on this site say this, "Nobody likes a fan." You have to try to get on a guy's level.
Um,that's mental, you don't go taking pictures of yourself with guys you don't really know, sorry but wtf? Why do you want these pictures anyway? Especially if they have gfs? Honestly, I don't think they will say no but they will definitely think you're a bit crazy.
I asked one of the guys and he said he wasnt really into getting pictures so I kinda feel weird now.....
I guess Im afraid of rejection. I never was popular when I was a kid so I guess that is why it is affecting me now. I just really wish that I was better at talking to guys and I wish I was more outgoing. That would help me alot.
Happy snaps! I love that term! I'm stealing it.
And poster, just ask! They won't say no.
well some of the guys are older than me and some have gf's that could easily take me. I know what I would say if they asked me why but im just scared to ask them. especially the older guys and even the one the same age as me im still alittle scared to.
If you are a girl, then you could just go up to them and tell them you think their hot and want a picture with them... They'd be flattered and might even ham it up for you. If they react poorly, then why would you want a picture with the jerks anyway.
Are they friends? If there friends I wouldn't worry an just tell them your taking happy snaps, say cheese! If there not u may look a little strange..