Is it normal to be so different ?

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I should be more excited about going out clubbing/drinking/socialising but I'm not... I'm 22 now and I should be like others and enjoying going to clubs and that but honestly I'm not I only started a year ago when my cousin asked me, usually I'd back out but I plucked up the courage to go and I did enjoy it I did and I made new friends with hers which was nice.. I've Been out with them many times with them now and I always get nervous (I'm shy) very reserved I am. I'm going out tonight and I have to meet them all soon and honestly I'm just so nervous even though I'll enjoy it probably. But I'm not over fussed about doing it and I only did it to feel some normality.

:( what are your thoughts ? not normal is it

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    7 years ago

    Normal. Many people don't like going out. Me neither. Clubs are the worst. Shitty music that's so loud you have to scream at each other over highly overpriced drinks ... I never understood why anyone liked that.
    Maybe you just need to find your crowd. When my friends and I get together we usually eat and play games. It's fun, cheap and nobody gets hangovers or STDs.
    Just be yourself. Socialising can happen in literally any place where people are.
    But if out of peer pressure you keep doing things you don't really like, you'll only meat more people that don't share your interests.

    Don't get me wrong. It's important to get out of your comfort zone from time to time, but you don't need to be like every other 22 year old. Be different, find your niche.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Maybe after a while of hanging out, you'll slowly gain more confidence, and after so long you wont be shy anymore :)

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  • ThatScarletteGirl
    7 years ago

    I feel shy when I go to attend a wedding or any other place with my mom. Even when my mom takes me for shopping I'm too shy. I can't even look at the shopkeeper. Even when I see cute babies I feel shy I want to cuddle them, hold them in my arms but I can't even look at there face because I'm too shy and they are so adorable. I don't even talk to my friends and for this they don't talk to me about certain matters as well :( I'm just so nervous about this things... I can't even make friends easily because of my shyness. People think I'm showing attitude but the truth is I'm too shy.

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