Is it normal to be so moody and to reflect on the past a lot?

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I am very changeable. Sometimes I am in a good mood and then one day I can quickly change up and it's like my evil twin comes out. I begin frowning. Part of the problem is I tend to dwell on things that have happened in the past, regarding my lack of friends in college and rejection/trouble with getting women. Also I live with my mom's fiancee and I don't particularly care for him because when I came back home one summer from college depressed, he distanced himself from me. Even though this was so long ago, I still have trouble forgetting about how he didn't help me overcome my depression like my mother did.

Also the fact that I'm not having sex makes me mad too sometimes. I haven't found a fuck buddy or girlfriend yet. I am joining some clubs though (not just to meet ladies) and talking to a few ladies online. How do I reduce my anxiety? I think about having sex a lot.

Sometimes I am so quiet. I don't laugh at anything because I sometimes am in a mood. How do I get out of this and live every day in a happy mood, always smiling?

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  • hairynipples
    12 years ago

    What you said reminds me alot of what i am like at the moment. I have feel really shitty some days and good the others.I think it is a case of anxiety my advice is to stop worrying about havign sex, and looking for women to be sex budies. Sort out the other things in your life first that are causing anxiety. Instead of going to cluds in search of sex go in search of someone to chill with and become friends male or female.

    Id suggest to try and make more friends from classes that you have a common intrest with. You will be suprised by having a few friends around will help and yes i know you are shy but some shit just has to be done.

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  • purpledino8
    12 years ago

    Its normal,don't worry.. I'm like this to..dwelling on the past, but I say fuck it. You shouldn't care..its just extra weight on you if you think about it all the time. its the past focus on today and yourself. Do something that you love a hobby,or something you been wanting to try. Because then you will be happy and put good energy and focus on that. That's good you joinin clubs. But everyone has tht feeling.

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