Is it normal to be so scared..

Is it normal that I get so scared, nervous and terrified to kiss someone I don't know why but it's just like i freeze up and I just can't do it I need help on how to get over this because it interferes with my love life

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Based on 39 votes (29 yes)
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  • Jessicaahhhh

    There are so many reasons that you're feeling this way. Have you kissed many people before? My first couple of kisses were the most awkward and terrifying experiences of my life. A common reason you could be feeling like this is that you don't think you are a good kisser. Worrying about it is gonna make you be bad, the only way to overcome this is to feel comfortable with the person and not worry about what your mouth is doing, just go with it :)

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  • redoctober

    Try practicing with your pet dog or cat. Helped me out so much!

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  • ohplease

    If you're nervous, your mouth is probably a little dry, which is good, because I'm pretty sure that the overly wet sloppy kiss is the most universally reviled. So go to it!

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    • Energy

      The wet sloppy ones are the hottest...

      Nonetheless, I'm the same way about it. Even though I fantasize about the wet sloppy ones....>_>

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      • ohplease

        Really? With all the spit? I'm not saying I'm anti-tongue, I'm talking about the kisses where it's like, practically dripping and you have to take breaks mid kiss to do something about all the excess spit?

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        • Energy

          Yeah, if I'm in the moment. They make me horny. So we just end up fucking.

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          • ohplease

            I guess I'm just a terrible person. I'd rather skip the slobber.

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