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I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now and I still get really antsy and nervous whenever he talks to girls or hangs out with them:( I feel like I'm a bother but he said I'm never bothering him. Am I a bad girlfriend? I feel like I'm possessive and I don't want to be that way....but I'm scared I might lose him someday.
You sort of answered your own question. He may not be annoyed now, but no man likes overly possessive women.
Although I sometimes feel the same way, I don't believe it's healthy for me.
it's good that you're aware that it's irrational. just keep it inside and let him hang out with girls because at the end of the day - he wants you.
It's pretty normal to feel nervous or paranoid at times. Just don't let it get the better of you and effect your relationship. Unless he gives you actual reasons to not trust him. Some people take a long time to fully trust someone.
Any girl will get that way when her Man is with another girl. Any Man will get that way when his Girl is with another man.
I'd call it instinct.
Basically you might be feeling She's/He's Mine Get off her!!! B===/Son of B===; more or less