Is it normal to be this way with my boyfriend?

I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now and I still get really antsy and nervous whenever he talks to girls or hangs out with them:( I feel like I'm a bother but he said I'm never bothering him. Am I a bad girlfriend? I feel like I'm possessive and I don't want to be that way....but I'm scared I might lose him someday.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • DADNSCAL

    You sort of answered your own question. He may not be annoyed now, but no man likes overly possessive women.

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  • AppleMind

    Although I sometimes feel the same way, I don't believe it's healthy for me.

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  • dexy77

    it's good that you're aware that it's irrational. just keep it inside and let him hang out with girls because at the end of the day - he wants you.

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  • Maya05

    It's pretty normal to feel nervous or paranoid at times. Just don't let it get the better of you and effect your relationship. Unless he gives you actual reasons to not trust him. Some people take a long time to fully trust someone.

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  • BetaSpectre

    Any girl will get that way when her Man is with another girl. Any Man will get that way when his Girl is with another man.

    I'd call it instinct.

    Basically you might be feeling She's/He's Mine Get off her!!! B===/Son of B===; more or less

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  • Guwap92

    Face it, Relationships dont last!

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    • iin

      Only for the ones that aren't meant to be together.

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  • Johnnytherat

    woman you need to calm down SHES JUST A FRIEND

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  • Steve92

    No!

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