Is it normal to be treated like this at 17?

Um... Yeah. So here goes. I'm doing home schooling with this 24 year old girl who lives with me. And is also my teacher. I am always home alone except for her. She is always home with me. My dad works all the time. So I like to do what I want but now that she is here with me, I feel like I have a parent around all the time. I have to make sure everything is taken care of at home. And I can't be out past a certain time. And when I don't do what she asks me to, or I mouth off or anything along those lines, she either spanks me (NOT BARE BOTTOMED), makes me stand in the corner or sit on the couch for a timeout, puts hot sauce in my mouth, or makes me go to bed early. And when I don't want to go to bed early she drags me up the stairs. I try to fight her, but it's not a smart idea. For me it's best to just do what she says. But it all feels so ridiculous to me. Is any of this normal?
Like the other day she made me go on a beach trip with her and one of her friends and I didn't want to go. But I did. And I had my headphones on the whole way there. I was in a pretty pissy mood and then she turned back to me (in front of her friend) and said "I will take you over my knee right here & right now if you don't lose the attitude. She spanked me so hard that I even cried. I don't normally cry.

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Comments ( 47 )
  • DhGlory

    I'm 18 and I practically live on my own :/ why would you possibly need a babysitter at that age? Tell her to fuck off or you'll call the police, no one should be treating you that way in your own home!? Somehow I think this is fake... But if it isn't your parents are over protective even so they aren't there often.

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  • hell to the fucking no. A 24 doing this to a 17 year old is not expectable @ all. Tell your father. And get her ass fired! that is total abuse

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  • She's only 24 & just supposed to tutor you and provide some supervision. She is clearly and grotesquely incompetent. The physical assault, hot sauce, degrading insults ... its called abuse.

    You must tell your father, and if he refuses to listen, go to the police.

    That at age 17 you are left alone isolated and mistreated this serious wacko says something is very wrong with your family.

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    • Samthesam

      I want some one to finger me ages 12-14 only in wasua wi please I'm a girl

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  • Get rebellious! Prank her head off then act innocent. Wear some sort of pad under your underwear so It doesn't hurt if you are spanked (I did it once when I was like 5). MOst of all tell your dad. He'll deal with her easily but it can't hurt to torment her for all that crap she's been doing to you BEFORE you tell your dad right? Stay out past your curfew then climb the window to your room and pretend to be asleep. And does she sleep there? If she does then take the foam out of her bed and replace it with 300 whoopee cushions. For better effect, leave a skunk tied up in her room where she can't see it. The sound of the cushions will hopefully agitate it and make it spray that wonderful horrendously stench-filled liquid hidden within.

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    • You know an easier way to humiliate her? HIde a camera somewhere and do an epic prank. Post it on a website like Youtube (not advertising it or anything) and tell the neighborhood about it. Once she finds out tell your dad or the police. After that you will hear a scream say "M-M-M-M-MONSTER KILL (kill, kill, kill) GODLIKE... HOLY SHIT!" (From DOTA Allstars when you do something epic)

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  • MercedesBenz

    Wtf? She treats you like youre mentally inept. Demand respect or call police for physical assault.

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  • Short&2thepoint

    If it were me... I'd dare her ass to touch me again. Give her fair warning. If she does it again snap her damn wrist. You could easily claim self defense. But you sound like you're about 13, so I'd get the hell over it.

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  • awelstoo

    BAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHA okay i read it now. very nice.
    10/10.

    on the off chance you're not a really obvious troll then well...your family is obviously retarded so i would give up now. pro tip if you're going to kill her or seriously assault her, you better do it before you turn 18 so you can't get adult penalties. like spanking. haha wow...

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    • ~L~

      lol

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  • Kai'Layah

    beat her fuckin ass the next time she touches you. shes 24, not your elder and she's being paid to teach you, its not like shes offering her time for free where you owe her something. beat that ass.

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  • street_sk8ing

    I thought this was going to get dirty

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  • woowowo BITTCHHH! talk too ur fam ditch her just leave. fight her

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  • BADMAN!

    Punch her in the ovary. That'll learn her.

    BADMAN!

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  • jules_mae

    I'd prolly punch her

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  • lambertluver

    I think she's gonna rape you...or make you a sex slave

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  • kricket1992

    I just asked my dad what he thinks of her. before i just threw all that at him. he said he thinks she is great for a babysitter. what a weird guy. he thinks she is dgood at teaching me to cook and all sorts of things.

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    • Ellenna

      Babysitter? Your father is seriously weird. Get some outside help - child welfare or whatever is available, cops as last resort I'd think.

      Is there a Kidsline or something similar where you live?

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  • cassiewa

    If u were 6 this would be normal. But 17? Call the police if ur father won't fire her!!!!!

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  • Queen_of_darkness16

    It would be normal if your like 5-6,but 17?, Call the F***ing police to put the Bi*tch in her place!

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    • Ellenna

      This is not normal no matter how old or young the victim is - so it's ok to abuse small kids but not a 17 year old?

      I hope you don't have small children in your care

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  • FiestaXR2

    To be fair i find some of this quite fictional, and not true. But ill take your word for it... Push her down the stairs... anything to get rid of the evil b**ch!

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  • Punch her in the ovary : D

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  • BiDaddysGirl

    I get bare bottom spankings everyday too

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  • CarcassVomit

    This seems like a fake post and a deluded sexual fantasy. If this is really happening, call the cops. Abuse is illegal - she'll be put in jail immediately. If it's fiction, I hope you and your fictional dominatrix live a long and happy life together.

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  • ihavenomouth

    What the actual fuck? Call the police.

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  • Avant-Garde

    1. Have you told your father?
    2. Is this woman related to you?
    3. You're 17, learn self-defence and the next time she starts up with this bullshit put her in her place! Show her that you refuse to be abused like this!

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  • BTCHPLS

    too fkin long

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  • brok

    Ollieo has made the most sensible and balanced comment. Yes what this person is doing is wrong and you must protect yourself.
    You do not say what her relationship is with your father but you must have observed the situation and will know whether is is possible to talk to your dad. The important thing is that you are being assaulted and abused if everything you say is fact. Talk to a trusted friend, a teacher or a priest if you feel dad can't be reached. But most of all, whoever you talk to must support you when you report this person to the police. Good luck.

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  • Morbid_Curiosity

    I understand you may respect her, and she must have her good points, but she is crossing the line. You should sit her down and explain to her that you appreciate all that she does for you, but you are young adult and her punishments are inappropriate for someone of your age. You are almost a legal adult, you should not have to endure punishments meant for five year olds.
    Try to set rules, and punishments together. Example, suggest that if you stay out late, you'll have your cell phone or computer taken away.

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  • clwkid

    awwh i feel bad, but you gotta tell your dad quick and if not him someone close to you that could help the situation.

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  • awelstoo

    i didnt read your comment yet, but it IS normal to get banned from isitnormal for being underage. good juan.

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  • southernbarbie16

    It's not normal at all. Tell your dad. If he doesn't listen, tell the police.

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  • ven067

    tell ur father or call the police, you're probably nearly 18 and she should not be treating you this way...at all!

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  • CityOfBlindingLights

    u should just do her

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  • TheEpicOne

    You have the right to call the police if she hurt you, try talk with your father first, maybe talk to your teacher, set some rules yourself. Make her respect you, and if she keeps doing what she doing, you can contact the police.

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  • Call the goddamn cops that is assualt on a minor

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  • LOL.. make a move on her

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  • queenZEBRA

    Call the cops. She's NOT a parent and yr NOT 6! She has noooo right. She could end up in jail. Seriously- tell somebody

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  • I can't believe you're seventeen and putting up with this. Clearly it's abuse and something needs to be done about it.

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  • FearFigment

    ROFLL

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  • kricket1992

    K. I really appreciate the help guys:-)

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  • jsyk

    that is absolutely unexceptable, one she's treating you like your 5, two she's actually hitting you. if i were your parent her ass would be soooo fired. she sounds like she's on a total power trip, some one needs to bring her down a few pegs.

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  • BrightEyes

    This is ridiculous. Have you told you father? It's abuse, she should not be placing her hands on you.

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  • ThatChick28

    U sound like a little shit to me! To me it sounds like ur parents didn't know what to do about ur behavior so they hired a bitch to keep u in line. Stop being such a little bitch and maybe this babysitter won't treat u like a child. Maybe show ur dad that u don't need a babysitter at 17. Grow the fuck up x.x

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  • kricket1992

    I haven't told my dad about it yet. I respect this girl like she is my guardian because she is always there for me when i need her. Like to talk to and stuff. Sometimes I think I deserve it. But most the time I don't think I deserve it. I cuss a lot though and I sometimes throw fits like yell and throw when I get upset or don't get my way. So I am being a little shit. But i hate when she "disciplines" me, or "punishes" me. She resorted to this beuse I wasn't responding to normal punishments for kids my age according to her. But I wasn't listening when she would punish me other ways. Like taking my phone away. It didn't bother me. And taking the computer away. I always find ways around it. I don't know what to do.

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  • BlackShadow123

    I hope you're not a guy.
    If so, you're a pussy and need to put that bitch in her place!

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