Is it normal to be treated like this at 17?
Um... Yeah. So here goes. I'm doing home schooling with this 24 year old girl who lives with me. And is also my teacher. I am always home alone except for her. She is always home with me. My dad works all the time. So I like to do what I want but now that she is here with me, I feel like I have a parent around all the time. I have to make sure everything is taken care of at home. And I can't be out past a certain time. And when I don't do what she asks me to, or I mouth off or anything along those lines, she either spanks me (NOT BARE BOTTOMED), makes me stand in the corner or sit on the couch for a timeout, puts hot sauce in my mouth, or makes me go to bed early. And when I don't want to go to bed early she drags me up the stairs. I try to fight her, but it's not a smart idea. For me it's best to just do what she says. But it all feels so ridiculous to me. Is any of this normal?
Like the other day she made me go on a beach trip with her and one of her friends and I didn't want to go. But I did. And I had my headphones on the whole way there. I was in a pretty pissy mood and then she turned back to me (in front of her friend) and said "I will take you over my knee right here & right now if you don't lose the attitude. She spanked me so hard that I even cried. I don't normally cry.