Is it normal to be very fussy?

I'm very fussy with everything, including my morals, my selfishness, my dress, my food and drinks, my tobacco/snuff, my rollie papers, etc, I'm even fussy about what fish is the correct fish to eat and what bird is the correct bird to look at: only beautiful birds, not fowl, not ostriches, emus, or cassowaries. My eating is no simple thing to please me, correct means only that which is a standard I approve of, this is the usage I had when I responded to Dad by saying "the only problem to solve is feeding me the correct foods". He has a problem with whatever's correct, he hates fastidiousness (excessive fussiness) and all that's fussy, yet, as contradicting his rule, he's very fussy with his behavioural if not moral standards, example: only buying things over $1,000 if it's a car, a house, or a computer, never accepting fussiness under any circumstances, never, by his standards, being an asshole, never being annoying, never masturbating (that's right, I observed this carefully), no lust, alcohol only if it's not spirits, no horse-racing, no dogfighting, no cockfighting, never drinking alcohol at the wrong time in the morning, etc etc (he has millions of guidelines to fit his standards and when I break any of them, his principles, he gets angry, annoyed or snaps), my morality is simple: standards of selfishness, luxury, gourmandism and connoisseurship, dressing only in ornamental not plain clothes, in a pompous fashion, defining words specifically in the correct meanings, only having refinement, wearing an elaborate tie, etc etc, not all of this is moral, I'm not obsessed with morals, and my eating: fish other than shark, cetaceans, cephalopods and decapods, therefore I don't eat octopus and I don't eat crab or lobster, but I would eat prawns and shrimps. Never eating eggs other than caviar, never eating cranberries, mangoes, watermelons, raspberries, or pumpkins, only as much as possible having very fancy foods and very fancy drinks, never mixing coffee or tea or cocoa with flavourings, never eating normal chocolate, never drinking lattes, never eating anything that looks skeletal, never having barbecued foods, never eating foods that resemble foods I don't like, never eating yeast extracts (yuck!), only eating mostly fancy, delicate, beautiful, exquisite, desirable foods. Therefore what I do eat is vegan stroganoff (with mushrooms), vegan salade nicoise with a shallot vinaigrette, caviar on water crackers, particularly the sesame seed or cracked pepper ones, and gourmet porridge with dates (it does exist!), and, without cephalopods or decapods added, a pasta di mare. I mostly don't eat Arnott's biscuits, but biscuits of the connoisseur, such as Walker's shortbread. I wouldn't have a Casio watch, but a Giordano pocket watch, I wouldn't have a red suit, but a navy-coloured dinner suit jacket made of tweed, and I wouldn't have a Stephen King horror unless it was 'The Shining', but I would have the Stephen King book 'The Eyes Of The Dragon', I only like his stylish books. I wouldn't if I could help it, watch a movie or series unless it was classy, like 'Frasier' or 'The Haunted Mansion' or the stylish thriller 'Apt Pupil'. Is therefore a lot of fussiness normal?