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I've been talking to a guy for awhile and hooking up with him. He wants to touch me & take my clothes off but I'm nervous. I've never done any of that and I know that I really want to do it but I'm scared. We're not even going out so I'm kind of embarassed to talk to him about it. Is this normal?
My only quesion here is how old are you?
I just want to say that if you feel like you don't want to do something then you shouldn't if you haven't done things like this before then you should be comfortable and want too. There is nothing wrong with waiting, it's mature and responcible.
My advice, take some time, think about what you really want, have a frank talk with this person you kinda like, if they are understanding then that is great, there probably someone you can trust. If they try and talk you into doing things that you are unsure about or don't want to do, then they are a waste of your time and you can do so much better. Everyone deserves a partner who respects them and there wishes.
Good luck, I wish you all the best.
if you haven't been on a date and don't actually consider yourself as "going out" or "together" then it seems a bit strange he would want to just hook up with you and start taking off your clothes. how close are you with this guy? because that's something you want to be comfortable doing, so if it's going to be your first time, make sure it's with a guy you trust and know.
It's normal to feel scared. Take it real slow. If something is bothering you let him know though. Communication is key.
It's definitley normal. I was the same, be comfortable with him about you're feelings I'm sure he will understand. That's what I do, I let it all out if I feel uncomfortable in any way I let them now. And take it slow , at first.
"We're not even going out..." Well aren't you putting the horse before the cart (i.e. doing it the wrong way around)? Don't you think you'd feel more comfortable with sexual foreplay if you actually had a RELATIONSHIP with this guy? Why if you can't ... more...
My idea of foreplay is way different from ya'lls it about getting into naughty outfits and setting the mood
Agree with Mando. Discomfort will lessen if you feel 100% sure of where you stand with this guy.
Normal. You can keep some clothes on when doing your thing, take a little off, repeat... If you want to stop though, you have every right to stop.
It's ok to be nervous. You don't need to go all nude the first time he touches you. With my first intimate relationship I left the jeans on the first few times we foreplayes (I was super nervous)
I say think it over. If you're ready, do it. But know what his intentions are, and let him know yours. And tell him how you really feel too. Give him the heads up that you've never done that stuff before. And keep an open mind.
Its normal. Let him rub on your crotch a little bit (threw clothing). See if you like it. Take things slow, you dont have to take all your clothes off at once. ?? It might make you feel better if you take the lead, get on top him and grind....