Is it normal to constantly change your mind about someone?

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is it normal to keep changing your mind about someone? this person who i thought i also loved asked me if i wanted to be in a relationship, and i cant answer because one second i love them with all my heart and i want to die with them, and the next where i hate them with all my might and i am absolutely disgusted by them.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    3 years ago

    It sounds like you have BPD, borderline personality disorder.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Is there any rhyme, or reason to your ever changing feelings moods about this person?

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Yeah it happens to me all the time. I'm not as in touch with my own emotions as I once was.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      but at this rate? im talking about changes within minutes that laste hours, days or even months.

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      • ellnell
        3 years ago

        Is it only this one person? Do they mess with your emotions a lot or is it your own feelings that change for no specific reason?
        Maybe they just aren't right for you, that could be a reason too. You can love someone but not romantically but if you try to force romantic emotions that might cause negative feelings or you might be scared to commit so you feel threatened by your emotions for this person.

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