Is it normal to dump your partner because you don't find him attractive?

When you love someone, you find the person beautiful as beauty is subjective and as love is linked with beauty. I'm not finding him unattractive after years of relationship but just after a month. when he looked at me i was almost disgusted... As that's cruel for him and uncomfortable for me i stopped the relationship.

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  • Somenormie

    Looks do not matter much, personality matters the most. You can have the greatest looking person in a relationship but I will still stand on the personality part.

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    • Iambillythemenacetosociety

      You know good and damn well that's a lie.

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      • olderdude-xx

        Beauty is only skin deep... but a person's soul is through and through. It's the soul that counts.

        The statement was not a lie. It's very true... and real long term loving caring people love and care for each other regardless of looks.

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        • Iambillythemenacetosociety

          Fuck out of here with this bs.

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      • LloydAsher

        Nope. It's reality for those who are mature.

        Sure I thought I was a 100% superficial guy. But when I met my girlfriend she had the personality that perfectly matched my own.

        Even if she got into a fire or becomes crippled she'll still be the same marshmallow of kindness.

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        • clazirr

          that's true love and that how it should be.In my case i think i acted like that because i wasn't loving him enough i guess

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        • Iambillythemenacetosociety

          Bullshit. The hell out of here with this nonsense. Like anybody actually believes this. Nobody genuinely gives a shit. Bunch off lying asses. Yeah, we definitely got a big boy here.😂

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    If its only been a month id probably also break it off. I wouldnt tell him that its because hes ugly though. Thats not gonna help him any in his future relationships.

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  • Jsc072167

    I don’t understand what attracted you to him a month ago? If you just met him then the first thing we move on is the physical attraction then a mental soul attraction can grow. If you knew him for years then you know he’s been ugly. Maybe you had on beer goggles night you met him I don’t know but I know this the only time I ever was with someone I found un attractive was when I was drunk on the road as a musician

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    • clazirr

      Yeah strangely I found his personality and soul attractive.I even told myself " so finally It's possible to fall in love with someone even if we don't like his appearance ".Maybe i just forced myself to think i could fall in love and not care about the looks,then i had the illusion to fall in love with him.. That's a weird situation .

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  • Tinybird

    This is the reason why I will never have a relationship with a "real" person. I only have relationships with "imaginary" things/people because when I start to find something else attractive I can just create another one, and the others will still be around, but just as friends.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Then you should break up 😂

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