Is it normal to fail

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I wnet through a rough time 5 years ago and have survived a suicide attempt, since then i have tried to get my life back on track and have changed completely i gym every day and ang around with completetly different people. yet no matter how hard i try to change i feel i am still pulled back into that place, no matter how hard i try i cant get the things i want no matter how hard i work for it. it feels like i have a destiny to be a failure. its like mybe i was ment to have not survived and maybe now im just living in a purgitory where i cnt go back and cant move forward. this is a serious comment even though it sounds pathetic. i just want to know if other people have similar beliefs

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Based on 30 votes (21 yes)
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  • mikafor
    11 years ago

    Trust me, you're not the only person. If you think life won't let you move forward, tell life "Go fuck yourself, I'm better than you." If you want to move away from being down and you want to be completely awesome, just go for it. Sometimes it takes some confidence, a little motivation, some anger, and a pinch of insanity.

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago

    The only person holding you back is you.

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  • Debbieanne
    11 years ago

    I feel like a failure myself, I've dropped out of school college and only got a few qualifications I feel hopeless sometimes and wonder what's the point when everyone judges. But I think being healthy and alive is the most important things in life, not what career you have or what u have succeeded in life and if you've managed to try and get you're life back on track that shows you want to success and help yourself.

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  • o_0
    11 years ago

    the world is gona push you back its you only who will drag your self forward... you are gona face failures ,do mistakes ,get abacked but thats a part of life and its not the end ... when ever you fall its to teach that next time how can skip and avoid the fall not to degrade you ..... and remember ''you only fail when you stop trying'' -Albert Einstein..... and destiny is created by a person only...
    try try and keep on trying and then you will realize whats the secret of success .... if you think like this from now only how will you succeed there is a long way to go.... just do it

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  • Donnie27
    11 years ago

    thanks mikafor just to be clear here im a pretty hardworking guy. went from being suicidal to starting my own company to achieve my dreams, yet seems no matter how hard i try i seem never to get anywhere! Endlesssuffering, thats not really true is it plenty of things can hold us back, a zebra will always be at the bottom of the food chain regardless what color it paints its self.

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