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I'm 24 and my house wife is 25,as she left for work, I approached a lady not because of love, but I was thirsty for sex, she was 10 years older than me, she loves me so much now, she swears never to leave me. Is it normal?
10 years in not that much of an age difference.
The real question I have her is does your wife know and is OK with this? No problem if so. Major problem in your future if not.
My wife doesn't know anything because she's up country with our daughter.
So what happens when your wife finds out? Have you thought of that.
I have 2 suggestions for you.
1) Please watch the following video, perhaps several times.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q
2) Please get and read the "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.
Your relationship issues are unlikely to be directly related to the actual need for sex. You and your wife can fix that... if you want to continue a long term stable marriage. Note: Get 2 books and ask your wife to read the 2nd. This book will likely allow you to revitalize your marriage.
The end of the video explains your situation. Do you really mess up your marriage worse than it is - or do you patch it up with a new understanding is mainly up to you (although your wife has to decide as well).
I've been around for a long time. It appears to me that its a rare case where people can hide an affair all of their life.
It's far better to work out issues before going outside the relationship for intimacy (with permission, and often rules) than to do so behind your partner's back. But, that is now in the past. Can you reset and fix it now?
I believe that you likely can... If you are really willing to man up.
Your house wife? -_- You mean your wife?
As for age difference 10 years or less isn't really a big difference.