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When I get examined by a doctor, even when we're both females, I get really scared, especially if she wants to check my breasts or privates, and sometimes I don't even undress when I have to. I fear molestation. Is this normal?
Hmm...good point. I have to admit, I was a little suspicious when I went to the doctor and he asked me to drop my trousers after I complained of a sore throat.
Have you been hurt before by someone or when you where younger.
How old are you?
To be honest get used to it cos if you want kids they see the lot
It is normal to be a little nervous to get naked infront of doctors, whether their male or female. But if you fear this much, than that could possibly mean that you were sexually abused by a family member or a doctor as a child.
I suggest that you seek therapy, or call a sexual abuse hotline.
Hope this helps.
You probably were molested by a doctor a young child. You might not remember because you were so young. But on the other hand, it is embarresing for anyone to get naked infront of the doctors.
It is normal to fear molestation, but when I was a kid, I had to be checked by my doctor sometimes in my private area and I didn't care. Doctors aren't touching your private parts to hurt you, they are making sure your privates are healthy.
On the other hand, if they DO molest you, call the police.
Have you ever had a doctor touch your penis before in a way that seemed not normal?
Most doctors have been so completely desensitized, through years of exposure to all varieties of vaginas, that seeing yours won't do a thing for them. You have nothing to worry about.
I can understand dreading the cold, pinching speculum that they use. It sort of hurts a bit.
Get use to getting it done because it may save your life one day.
It's normal to fear molestation but doctors need to examine some areas to see if your healthy. On a positive note, you can sue them and get a pretty rad paycheck if they do molest you.