Is it normal to fear guys? and relationships?

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Ok I don't fear guys persay, but my whole life I was never liked, and was always picked on by all the boys, but now, I get compliments left and right and the majority of them are about my eyes, I'm not trying to be cocky or anything, but I think I really do have unique , pretty eyes, but otherwise I hate myslef and my appearannce. Everyones always telling me I'm beautiful, pretty, etc but I don't see it at all... I have the worst self esteem! But over the last couple years, I've been asked out like crazy but I've turned em all down, I have still yet to have a boyfriend... But now that I get positive attention from guys, I'm really shy, and sorta scared. I'm like afraid to date guys for some reason .. Idk if itsthe fear of commitment, or that I just downright don't know what I'm doing, or because everyone one of them isn't the right guy (don't get me wrong, I've had a few pretty cute, even hot guys look my way) so what I'm trying to ask is, is it normal to fear guys, in a relationship status?

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Based on 30 votes (27 yes)
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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    You sound absoloutly adorable, I would love to be your boyfriend.

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  • KLynn2013
    12 years ago

    Awww, I'm glad I'm not the only one(: and thanx dude, who sed I'd by my boyfriend that's cute(:

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  • KLynn2013
    12 years ago

    But I'm not adorable :pp

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Holy crap your story is seriously EXACTLY like mine. Like the pretty eyes, low self esteem thing, literally everything. I don't know if its normal but its honestly really comforting to know that theres someone else who feels like me. I really thought I was the only one

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    You at beautiful start believing it.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Awe! I used to be like this too...it just took me a while to be ready to date. No problem with that =)

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