Is it normal to fear this?

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I'm not sure if my fear even has a scientific name for the phobia itself, as its real specific and I haven't heard people that have spoken of it before. At least, not seriously since they take it as a joke.

I'm NOT joking- I'm afraid of living.

Before you click away, hear me out please! I want to know whether this is a common fear or not.

I worry for myself if I ever were to get an injury even just from enjoying myself on holiday, if I was to have to live with a debilitating condition due to it after.

Or if I were to attempt suicide, I'd have to live with the consequences of that attempt after. And I genuinely worry for those who do. I don't even have to be friends with a person whose tried. They could just be strangers to me, essentially. I don't worry for them platonically and I don't necessarily worry about their mental health. I worry about their physical health. Depending on how they had tried.

If they were to attempt a hanging, the brain can get damaged just from a few minutes without oxygen. I fear ever having to go without oxygen and becoming a vegetable for the rest of my life. Becoming trapped in my body, just from making a few mistakes in my life won't be a life worth living to me and there wouldn't even be the option there for me to end it because I physically wouldn't be able to.

I say this in confidence. Because this post is anonymous: I have suicidal thoughts DAILY. And I fear, because of how clumsy a person I am, that if I were to fail having to live with a part of my body not functioning properly anymore. If I were to try, I'd want it to be more than just an "attempt" basically.

I'm not so afraid of death or the unknown. I'm an atheist I don't see there being life after death, nor no pit of Hell or Heaven I'd have to deal with afterward. I'd be DEAD anyway so I probably wouldn't care.

I'm afraid of what I do know. I'm afraid of things like the pain of living with physical pain or just all over, physical, numbness. I'm afraid that if I tried overdosing (like one of my options I'd considered in the past). If it didn't add up to enough to do the deed, but rather it was more than enough to have a bad affect on my body. Surely that would be a painful experience

Anyway, thanks for listening- not a troll, not trying to seek attention, just trying not to feel so alone in my fears, maybe?

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Based on 6 votes (3 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • Fugazi,again

    Get some magic mushrooms in ye

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  • I've looked through lists of actual fears online and none of them are exactly how I feel and what I've been experiencing. I definitely fear risks. But I also fear stuff happening to me that I've no control over. I want to make that much obvious

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  • Ellenna

    I don't understand why you say you're afraid of living: your post makes it clear you're afraid of injury and pain and being helpless, all common fears.

    However, if you're allowing these fears to take over your life you need therapy.

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    • I thought it was a bit of that but everyone that has been majorly injured that I know of personally, be it a person that's broken a bone or had something else bad happen to them from general recklessness, they all say it's a part of life. Also I'm afraid of naturally occurring conditions that might not have a known cause there just seems like a lot of risk in life to me

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      • Ellenna

        Of course there's a lot of risk in life, that's just how it is. You can accept that and take as many precautions as possible to not be injured or become ill or continue to be preoccupied with what might happen. You do realise that being so concerned about risk does nothing except limit the only life you have? It won't stop bad things happening and you're no more at risk of that than anyone else, depending on your behavior.

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  • Mammal-lover

    Get a DNR tattoo. Problem solved.

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    • d0esnormalmatter

      Wait! I thought.... you were "pRo sUIciDe"???

      Or am I thinking of the wrong moron?

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      • I'm not pro suicide...what is pro suicide..is that like if I were to suggest suicide to others bc if so- ew no

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          It's not trying to discourage people from taking their own lives. Truly, truly, one of the absolute worst kinds of people.

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          • I don't want anyone else to

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      • Mammal-lover

        I'm pro choice on the matter. I dont beilive in stopping someone who wants to die

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        • d0esnormalmatter

          Oh okay yep. I was thinking of the right moron.

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  • noid

    Yes

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