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Is it normal to feel sad or depressed when changes occur ? , like getting older , moving to another job , generally changes in your life ?
my best friends are graduating college and I have been depressed at the thought of having to make new friends or suffer crippling loneliness.
I know how you feel. My birthdays make me sad, moving in to a new house kinda makes me sad, etc.
Yeah, I could be all rar rar rar, change is good, but it's a reminder that things are fragile and nothing lasts forever. Things are transient, as are we. The saddest thing in my life is that I've always seen my life as a progress bar.
But in this case, 100% doesn't mean the game is finally installed; it means the game is over.
I love changes for the most part. I so get sad sometimes looking at my childhood and knowing ill never live like that again
changes can be good or bad you should feel bad about bad ones but I suppose you would sometimes feel sad about good ones because it wont be the same again
As i get older im learning that i don't like change. After the change happens i don't like it but will eventually come around then hold on to it till it has to go.
It depends on the change. If something was going really well and it turned completely around, it makes me sad. Sometimes change is hard to adjust to. Not all change is bad though.
I feel sad and low if things don't change. I like to be constantly busy and meeting new people and experience new things. Only change I don't like is losing the people I love, but that's life X
it all depends on the change. Like I'm moving to college and it is going to be 100 times better than school with better people which is a good change however, things like moving house is worse because you leave good memories behind and stuff
I've always just thought that I struggle with transitions. Even when the changes are good I get kind of tripped up or feel a little off...even a little down-ish.
It's very normal especially if change is forced upon you eg. divorce, death. However, in order to progress, we need to realise that the change is for the better. We can't stay babies forever ;o(