Is it normal to feel like you’re going to be alone forever?

I’m 19 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. It just makes me confused because no guy has ever seen me as anything more than a friend and I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I want a relationship but all the guys in my life treat me like a sister. I’m a very caring person and give so much love and support to my friends and family and it makes me feel so shitty that no guy has ever cared about me in that way. I do not think I’m pretty but I don’t think I’m repulsively ugly either. Just average but it makes me feel so much worse about my self that guys aren’t interested. And maybe that’s crappy to say but it’s the honest truth.

Like is it on my end or do I miss signals? People tell me that I’m just nice to everyone so guys don’t know if I’m interested or not but that statement just confuses me more.

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  • nikkiclaire

    In my experience there are tons more ugly and average couples than there are beautiful ones. The odds are in your favor. Hang in there.

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  • Snazzytazzy

    Don’t worry. You still have a long way to go and I’m sure you’ll meet someone along the way. Just be confident! Confidence is attractive to a lot of people

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  • barefoot_on_the_sand

    Are you too shy? Do you make eye contact?

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    • I don’t think so haha I’m actually very outgoing and flirty. I mean don’t get me wrong I can be shy sometimes but for the most part I’m bubbly

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      • barefoot_on_the_sand

        You're young... the right guy will come along.

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