Is it normal to feel lonely when i'm not alone?

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Hello, at the moment i would say i have 11 people i can really trust and they'd be there for everything, so it's not like i'm alone-alone. i used to have way less friends years ago! like i had 3 friends and that's it.

but, the thign is that, some months ago, apart from these people, i had a best female friend i'd had for 5 years, a cute guy all over me and a boyfriend.... yet i wasn't that close to these 11 other people im telling you.
now i've lost all these three people, and i feel so alone sometimes. like i've done wrong and i've got to a point i dont have a friend to talk to, i still have these 11 other friends but i have lost the most important ones.
i can't get them back i really can't.... but i feel like.... im doing wrong in my life. these three dislike me and i dont know if its my fault because i'm an idiot and maybe all the other friends are gonna end up hating me too.

i feel lonely

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  • FredSumper23
    11 years ago

    I like being alone so it's hard for me to say. But yes I think it is normal to feel lonely when you're alone. Stop beating yourself up for it. It's not your fault.

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    too bad you didnt start off alone and stuck with it. Seems like you had more value with those 3 companions thatn you did with the other 11 that you appear to be shy to talk to?

    If i could just find one person, and we could make our own friends (not imaginary of course), thats my dream. Sadly, im here with all you creeps and trollers...

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago

    It sounds overly dramatic but I don't think there has been a day in the last year in which I didn't feel lonley at some point. Then again I've only got 3 people I fully trust anymore and 2 are family

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