Is it normal to feel sexually attracted to my friends?

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Honestly, I have friends of both genders and although I have never had a sexual experience with a female I’ve ‘dated’ a couple and I do consider myself bisexual. Recently, I’ve noticed that when I look at my friends (females) I feel more attracted to them in a sexual way then I do towards a male. When I’m with my friends I find I look at their ass (if they’re walking in front of me) and I just want to squeeze it and make out with them but I quickly shake it off. My two best friends have boyfriends but they’re both going through some problems with them and I just wish I could turn around and be like the person who helps them to discover they’re also attracted to the same sex lol

Depends on how close you are 1
No, absolutely not! 2
Yes, of course. 6
Yes, it happens to me! 4
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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Best thing to do is talk to them about it. If they are real friends they will be flattered and who knows, they might be into fooling around. Thats how I found mine. She was a "straight" friend.

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  • Chuda
    6 years ago

    No one will confess but it is a fact that many guys masturbate thinking the girls close to them. May be she is a frnd, friends sister, friend's wife, friend's gf or any other girls around him except family member. It is not to want to fuck and lick a friend's gf.

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  • amg1028
    6 years ago

    This literally happens to me but im gay. so its my male friends that i just stare at their butts and im super attracted to them.

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  • Akari3
    6 years ago

    One of them has hinted before that they are bi because she said she doesnt care whether or not she were to fall in love with a girl because it’s just whatever she feels but she never said clearly that she is bi either

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    If your friends are in relationships, it's probably not the best time to make a move on them.

    But maybe you could plant some seeds: hint that you think they're sexually attractive, focus on their lips a little more often when you're talking to them, and touch them in non-sexual ways just a little more frequently and for just a little longer than is normal for two straight women. If your friends know you're bi, they might get the message.

    No guarantee that they'll take up the offer, of course.

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