Is it normal to feel this way about a teacher?

I'm in grade 12 and I have this teacher. He's my English teacher, and I think he's the best thing in the world. Personally, I think he's cute as hell, although he's not the type that all the girls are after. And he's funny and sweet and he LOVES his job. The way he talks about himself in class, too, I can tell that we have a lot in common. We like the same music, we like sports, we think about a lot of things the same way. Just by the things he says, I can tell.
I find myself fascinated with him. I can't wait to go to English every day (English has always been my favourite subject ANYWAY, right through school, but even moreso this year). If I see him in the halls, I get really nervous and I try to make myself occupied with something else, because I'm not sure what shows on my face when I see him. I have to walk past his classroom every morning to get to my locker, and I find myself involuntarily glance in there every single time I pass, just to get a glimpse of him.
And I keep having dreams about him. The whole kicker in this story is, though, that I have not, honest to God, once had a sexual thought/dream/fantasy about him at all. And that's the honest truth.
That's what I don't get. I would say that this was a crush, but I thought that, for it to be a crush, I would have to have at least SOME of those kinds of thoughts, even if they were random and against my own will.
But my dreams are all about more hanging out with him or something like that. Not sleeping with him. I have no desires to have sex with him or make out with him or marry him or anything. I just have this fascination with him, like I want to be around him all the time. It's weird and it's driving me crazy. Does anyone know if this is normal?

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  • demo

    Yes, this is normal. Having intense admiration for someone does not mean that you are sexually attracted to them. You can even have intense admiration for someone of the same sex without being gay.

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  • CountryRoads

    I had the same situation with a coach. Just wait til you graduate and then go back to your town a few years later and bump into him at a bar. Then...
    Oh wait, that was what happened to me.

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    • daydreamer394

      What happened?

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    • wow really! ohh must be fate then :) x

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  • leftmeblind

    I think it's normal. And since you're almost graduating from high school, maybe you ought to take some opportunities to get to know him as a friend. Having so much in common with him, you could turn out to having a very fulfilling, longlasting friendship with him.

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  • kingofthedust

    cool story bro

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  • peterrabbyt4

    My male English teacher sucked me off when I was 17. It was great. Men suck cock better than women.

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  • Reign1993

    wtf

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  • penguin10

    I had this happen to me, too. I just really liked my teacher as a person (and a teacher) and admired him a lot. I always thought if we were the same age I would want to go out with him. But I just kind of like him as a person and not sexually at all.

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  • you know whats really weird, im in love wit my english teacher as well, and i was reading that like ohmygod did i post this and forget or what, it was till u said lockers and im like... i dont hav a locker,, he sounds exatly like my english teacher its weird,, ima tell mines im in lve with him next week though,, ama bit scared though x

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  • Maybe deep down you really do like him. Totes normal, dude. I have the same thing

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  • Treynine

    Yeah this is normal its more of a baby crush than anything else

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