Is it normal to flirt with all your guy friends unintentionally ?

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Almost no matter who they are or how well I know them, I unintentionally flirt with them. A lot of the time I don't even notice that I do it until my friends point it out to me. Only one of my friends have I ever intentionally flirted with, and that's because I actually liked him.
I just wanna know if you do it that much with guy friends that are strictly that, a friend.
I ask this because i think I may have made one of my guy friends like me, and now he's trying to figure out how to break up with his girlfriend without hurting her too badly and so he doesn't look like a d-bag.
Anyway, so is it normal?

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  • sweetz90
    13 years ago

    I have a friend like this...her bf broke up with her for it...I think u need to be careful ur not leading ppl on...because u can ruin relationships/ friendships if ppl misunderstand your intentions

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    I know a girl like that, but she doesn't just flirt, so it's a little nastier. I say you should be careful not to confuse your friends, sometimes we guys can extrapolate easily.

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  • EveningOwl
    12 years ago

    its normal, some people just sparkle lol.. thats a good excuse, i use. just pull the brother card with him say I love you, your like my big/baby brother :) its sucks but it works :P

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  • uniquelyme
    13 years ago

    I do that too, all the time. Its never intentional (I have a BF Im oober happy with) and a very annoying quality in myself i wish i could change because it gets a lot of guys to crush on me. Im not exactly sure how you could fix it, but what i do is just talk about my bf so they know im taken :/ Though some guys just wont give up -.-

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  • TakeMyHeart
    13 years ago

    see, i have in fact talked to him about it, and he says he notices it a little bit. now, he plain out told me that he feels nothing towards me, but i don't know if its because its true or just because he doesn't want to make things weird between us because he knows that i really like someone else....

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  • youdneverguess
    13 years ago

    What wrong with being able to be you all the time? But if you notice something funny you should straight out tell them that your not looking for anything like that with this person

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  • theytookthisone
    13 years ago

    they just take it the wrong way. guys are so simple to think that just because you kid around with them or talk to them, it means you are flirting with them are into them.

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    I think I may be like this. After high school it seemed like most of my guys friends confessed their "undying love" for me. Needless to say, I had to let them go as friends because i was committed to a man that I later married. <3

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  • megaan
    13 years ago

    yeah im the same way... i guess we just have a flirty personality

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  • chezycheze
    13 years ago

    So I don't know if I should say it is normal or not. But, I do remember that a lot of girls I went to high school with would flirt with lots of guys. This would get really confusing for the guys. It is really good to be interested in people and talk to them and stuff but I think that most of the time a person is capable of making it clear that they don't want to be more than a friend without straight up telling them that they are not interested. But, some cases will arise when you do need to straight up say that you are not interested.

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