Is it normal to freak out like this?!?

When I get a normal checkup at the doctors or if I get sick the doctor puts a stick on my tounge. If I'm sick they put some kind of lonh q-tip down my throat! hate that so much! Last time they did that I started freaking out and crying I even broke out in hives! What the heck?! My reflexes are to sensitive that I start to choke and panic. I cant relax when that happens!