Is it normal to get an urge to hit my boyfriend?

He should smack you back and leave. Hate women that take advantage of their boyfriends not willing to defend themselves, and think they can get away with violence to them. No doubt if he smacke dyou back once, he would put you in your place.

One day he's going to snap from all the abuse and hit you. How's about you break up with him so he can find a lady that treats him better?

It's normal to get angry and to want to hit someone you trust when you're angry-- you're a human being and being violent is actually pretty normal. We usually won't act violent with people we don't know-- the social contract and other societal pressures act as something of a brick wall towards that kind of behavior that makes most well-to-do people unable to hit someone they don't know, but it's also normal for those limiters to not apply for someone we consider close and trusted. The important part to remember is that these are the people that it is most important for you to NOT hit. When you want to, think about what you're doing, what you're gonna be doing to him, your relationship, and by extention yourself by doing it, and just choose not to.
There's nothing intrinsically wrong with wanting to harm people, but having the self control to choose not to is a very important part of life. Don't beat yourself up too much for past mistakes, but learn from your mistakes, fix what damage you can, move on if you can't, and above all, make yourself a better person for the experience. It's all part of life.

Never had a boyfriend, but I get what you mean. I can see myself as abusive because I know I have temper problems, and with my dominant personality and inability to control my rage most of the time, I can't deny that I've wanted to do some pretty violent things to a few of my crushes I've had in the past. Part of this reason is why I don't want a boyfriend in the first place xD

Anyhow, if you can't control it, maybe look into anger management or a kind of therapy that can help you control your rage. Don't feel ashamed. At least you've come to terms with the fact that you were wrong and now you want to do something about it. :)

You're an abuser.

I only act like this with him, thats is taking advantage and just yesterday he left me... Thats what i get. I love him and want him back :(

This is retarded, why the hell would you do something like this? And why is he so weak that he is still with you?

Sounds like the average bitch to me. Or you really need some form of psychological help.

and the 1 word answers?....he's just asking for it really

I wish to smack my boyfriend, I texted him that he didn't say text niceties for a while and he responded with i'm sleeping....*PUNCH* ....fucking prick, i'm glad I had that 1 fling; he's lucky i didn't do more!

Feisty now aren't we? damn u got flamed here. but its kinda true... You do have issues you need to fix, but seeing how he stayed for so long with all the... activity... then you probably have quite the high chances of winning him back once you can guarantee him it ain't gonna be happening again.

Try your luck. Work on yourself first though.

You are VERY lucky you aren't my gf. I would have knocked your fucking lights out. If you want to hit and punch and put yourself in the position of a man, prepare to be treated like one. I hope he finds a decent woman and leaves you ass in the dust. You don't deserve anyone.

Get a punching bag

Possibly. Some of my guy friends are such assholes they've learned how to bob and weave their girlfriends' punches.

In the end you can't go on like this. You're going to have to address your anger in a more constructive way.

"which is easy to get even when there is no reason to get angry"
You really should know that getting angry for no reason isn't normal? Of course you have a problem. You shouldn't hit anyone. At all.