Is it normal to get angry if you're told this?
For instance, you lose someone close by, and a person tells you that he/she is going to refer you to a psychologist or something like that and then your anger tolerance threshold snaps and you say "How is it likely she/he(the psychologist) is going to heal me and how exactly finding techniques to deal with grief change an irreversible situation?" and then if that doesn't help then ask a question "Find a livestock nearby, and choose one of manures a cattle has dropped, and shove it down the throat, if it is repulsive then you know do what? Spread massive quantities of sugar over it and shove it down your throat, eventually you know what you're going to taste anyway, right?"