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For years now i have had a tough time going out in public because i always get judged and commented negatively im a male 27 straight, not ugly but do have a feminine looking face and eyes ive had no girlfriend or friends for 3 years and im tired of being at home all the time so trapped and angry i dont like crowds they are the worst.
I agree with thegypsysailor, volunteer at an animal or homeless shelter. Chances are you'll feel comfortable because people at those kinds of places are generally less judgemental than people in general.
I don't think you're self confidence is helping though, so try do something to boost your self esteem. Go buy yourself some new clothes, get a new hair colour, go get a tattoo or something. Beware though, they are addictive! :P Anything to give you alittle confidence booster and help you feel better about yourself in general.
Lastly, don't listen to the people who make snide remarks about your appearance. You said mostly men and women in their 40s? Well, they're obviously jealous. They're middle aged, boring, and jealous of someone who's still got the primary years of their life ahead of them.
Where the heck do you live??(rhetorical).. No it's not normal, but I think it's more of a testament to the shitty people around than your appearance
I don't think you can blame having no friends or gf on that though
I'm sorry to hear that but where do you live to experience that? I actually admire guys with feminine features as they seem hard to come by. I bet you're more attractive than many men so maybe they're just jealous?
Try volunteering in your free time at an animal or homeless shelter. Nobody there gives a damn what you look like; they're just happy to have the help. Perhaps it will give folks a chance to get to know you before they judge you on your looks.