Is it normal to get pissed off when guys call girls "bitches"?

Ok I'm a girl (17) and everytime I hear guys call girls "bitches" I get effin pissed! I hear guys calling girls bitches like in music videos, songs, movies, tv shows, and even some of my guy friends call GIRLS bitches! It's so effin annoying! A girl is who bought you into this damn world in the first place and you have the nerve to call her a bitch?! That's so..ugh! I hate when guys do that crap! One time my guy classmate called my teacher a bitch for not letting him get on the computer! I was like wtf! Don't guys know what respect is?! Is it normal to get pissed about it?

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  • dirtybirdy

    I think you're just ovaryacting...

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    • disthing

      :*)

      Favourite comment of the hour.

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    • gummy_jr

      Pissdamn! You beat me too it *rewards you with garlic croutons*

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      • robbieforgotpw

        I prefer it when she's called a butch. A handsome woman... And shorts to her knees with butch cut- a manly gal

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  • howaminotmyself

    Listen to different music. Watch different shows. Find new friends. I so rarely hear women refered to britches unless they are actually being a cunt. Then they deserve it

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    • dirtybirdy

      Dem britches actin like a buncha stank ass knickers!!!

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  • lolol555

    It's only trashy music which does that which is filled with trashy shit anyways. If you guy friend keeps calling women 'bitches' (as a group term) then that's pretty immature of him. Hang out with someone else.

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  • Shrunk

    >>17
    Reported

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  • Ya bish

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  • CourtneyIrene

    I do get pretty angry when males refer to the female group as a whole as "bitches." I also don't like it when guys call their girlfriends that, or any other name, and the same for girls who call their boyfriends degrading names. I don't get mad every time someone gets angry with someone and calls them a bitch. It does bother me that most people reserve this term only for females, but people who call someone a bitch regardless of gender, I don't really care..

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  • loopoo

    Because guys are fucking assholes

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    • daydreamer394

      You sound like a misanthrope.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I agree with you, 100%.
    I think it is a completely disrespectful term for a woman and any man or boy who calls women bitches, has no class at all. Be it some mega rich rapper or some high school virgin trying to be dope, it only shows their ignorance and immaturity.
    Any woman who dates, sleeps with or marries a male who uses that term for a woman, is a fool and has no self respect.

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  • cs92

    it bothers me too.

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  • leslieloo

    Totally! No guy has a right to call a girl that word. Ever. They need to learn some respect!

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  • Ocean239

    In my group of friends, (boy and girl friends, no dating relationships *yet*) I'm known as the skinny fatass bitch. But if I'm CALLED a bitch, y'all gonna regret talking out loud.. Cuz then first of all, you'll be called a bitch back, then ur ginna be told "go fuck ur self", and then I just kinda scare them off. I don't think I belong with my friends cuz I'm the big meanie of the group. Actually not really cuz my bestie pokes my face, I get punched by one of my friends that will soon not be my friend anymore, I get made fun of by the same guy, and one of my friends can't keep her arm off of my shoulder, so I'm just like "BRAH!!! GET UR FUQIN ARM OFF MAH FUQIN SHOULDER, YA FUQASS!!"

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  • wandaring0

    It's normal to be annoyed slightly because the word is defined/used in a derogatory manner. Men are raised in various ways, and you will encounter many men that will completely disrespect you and think of you as nothing but a slut and piece of ass. Learn to accept you for who you are, and even affirm to yourself the words that others use against you. I don't mean to say this in a bad way, like hate yourself, but say that you are a bitch and a slut and all of that to yourself and you are fine with it. But tell yourself you are these things in a neutral, unemotional way. You are redefining the word to your own mind so that you do not react to it. Then, it will start to lose power when others call you it. Also define yourself in positive, good ways. Tell yourself you are beautiful, talented, and wonderful. Of course, when others tell you these things, they will also lose their power and you will no longer feel flattered by such compliments. In fact, words will just start to roll off of you that they won't even matter anymore, and you'll just ignore them. At that point, you are no longer defined or influenced by societies approval or rejection and can live and be how you want to be. You are just who you are.

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  • hairyfairy

    Men who call women bitches have issues with women.They hate them. These men are douchbags & should be avoided at all costs.

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  • DaMan

    We call women bitches because ALOT of you BITCH, like some BITCHES. Fuck respect - if a bitch is saying my name in negative context to her friends when I'm not there - shes a bitch. Men can be bitches, but bitching is less common in a group of men. FACT.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2068246/Women-born-bitchy--heres-scientific-proof.html

    ^^Something for your fancy

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  • disthing

    Since I'm British, more often than not the only time I hear women being collectively referred to as 'bitches' is in American hip hop or on American television.

    So if I hear it in person, it's usually because that person is emulating Americans for humorous effect.

    "Mayn, we gots to get some bitches to dis party yo, it's a fucking sausage factory out hyah! YO BRO BY THE TELE-MA-PHONE - CALL DOMINOS AND ORDER US SOME PIZZA WITHA SIDE ORDER OF BITCHES!"

    I can see why it might bother a girl when it isn't being used jokingly, but I get the impression it's rarely used in a pejorative way to cause offence - just as a casual slang term.

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    • disthing

      Oh but the singular term 'bitch' is an insult like any other.

      It might be gender specific, but then you don't often hear women being called sons of bitches, assholes, bastards or dickheads, do you? They're pretty much gender specific.

      Insults are usually intended to cause offence. I'm not sure why you're objecting to 'bitch' specifically?

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  • ♥Ev♥

    I also hate it when women use the term to refer to themselves. Like, why?

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  • kelili

    I agree with you. Don't worry about some of the comments. Some people here just crave for thumbs up so they'll post anything they judge funny just to increase their popularity.

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  • dickwashington

    first off your not supposed to be a member of this site if your not 18

    there are a lot worse things to call a girl then bitch

    i do it as a force of habit for girls whose name i do not know for girls i actually know and am friends with i would never refer to in that way

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  • wistfulmaiden

    I dislike women as a while being referred to as bitches, hoes or as few tv commentators got into big trouble for "nappy-headed hoes".
    Just, don't.

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  • LizardSkin

    Dis bitch Cray

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  • shuggy-chan

    Guys can be bitches too though

    Also a guy squirted you out of his dick at one point

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  • Stop being a little bitch about it............. :O

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  • At first I assumed you meant when guys call girls "Bitches" as the female group name but then when you said about one calling a teacher a bitch for something I think you mean whenever a guy calls a girl a bitch.

    Listen, princess, yes you have a vagina, no it does not make you immune to insults just because you are a woman. Stop being a bitch.

    And one thing I never understood is the "A woman brought you in to this world!" point...Yes, a woman brought someone in to this world...She done it for her own selfish (but not wrong) want for a child, she didn't do it out of love for a non-existing child, she wanted to have a child for her own reasons not out of love for the child that hasn't even entered the picture, so would the people demanding respect to women for that purpose please take a seat...You don't get points for choosing to do something YOU wanted to do.

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    • disthing

      Imagine:

      "Honey, you need to start respecting men. After all, a man helped bring you into this world!"

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      • It would equally be retarded, but from the thumbs down I got, looks like the IIN community, once again, expects people to lick the boots of the female gender.

        They seem to expect you to respect women on the fact that they make a choice "they" want for their own life choices. If a woman wants a child due to her wanting to have that experience of her own wish, then people should respect her for doing something for herself? Whut?

        Ah, this community.

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