Is it normal to get so scared around this guy who likes me?

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This really hot guy said he likes me.
I have no idea why he likes someone like me as I really don't think I'm beautiful and he could do so much better than me. He could have any girl he likes.

Whenever I see him I get so scared and the blood from my arms rushes out and they feel so weak. I have no self confidence. I always try to wear things to impress him and try to look really nice because I don't want him to think 'why on earth do I like someone like her?'

My voice goes all quiet and I can barely speak when he talks to me. I feel so stupid.

It really gets me down so much. :(

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  • SwimBikeRun
    12 years ago

    I think it's important for you to differentiate between feeling scared and feeling nervous. If he makes you feel scared, like something about HIM isn't right, Id be cautious. If you're nervous, like butterflies in your stomach, shy then you need to start telling yourself that, hey, you do have something good going on. You don't have to be a supermodel for a guy to like you. I'm sure you're decent looking. Maybe you're also smart, artistic, athletic or something else that adds to your attractiveness. Keep doing what you're doing, dress up nice, and tell yourself you do have great qualities. Obviously other people see that and you need to also.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yes that's definitely normal. (: I'm the same way and it really does overall suck. But if you hang out with him more and get used to him I'm sure that you'll open up.
    Once this reallyyy hot guy liked me and I was the same. And I told him I can't go out with him because I was too scared and nervous. Soo he stopped talking to me and it really did suck. And I regret that sooo much.

    I hope I helped you. (:

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