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Someone who has done me wrong for over 5 months lives with me and I HATE them and every single thing gets on my nerves but I don't want to feel this way if it's not normal or heathy or if it's gonna make me a psycho path 😂
It's normal, you've formed a negative image of this person in your head so now every action they perform you view with negativity
just remember this certain person parent is your fucking boss , you can raise your kids how you want them raised. until that time comes suck it up snowflake
They could just be a vindictive, hate-filled and generally nasty person. They might have a mental illness or be incapable of understanding how their words and actions are perceived by you.
There is, however, something called the Halo Effect. If we have a positive view of someone, then we tend to perceive everything they do in the most positive way possible. If we think someone is horrible, we tend to interpret everything they do and say in the most negative way possible.
One thing is certain: you can't change what the person you're complaining about does and says. Assuming it's not possible for you to just not live with the person, the only thing that's in your power to change is how you respond. If you get annoyed at them, that's something you've chosen to do. They can't make you love them and they can't make you hate them; those are choices you to make. They can't make you angry by criticizing you; you have to choose to treat their opinion as being very important to you. If they do something you think is stupid or inconsiderate, you choose if you get angry about that, or if you just shrug it off as another example of what they're like.
Yes thats normal but what isn't normal is how sometimes you can end up in bed with the person.