Is it normal to hate my boobs?

Ok so my breast is not that big, in fact most females my age have bigger breasts, the thing is that i hate it and i want smaller breasts. I feel uncomfortable and I always wear big clothes so that i can hide them. I'm also using small breast subliminals and sports bras to make them look smaller. Is it normal?

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70% Normal
Based on 10 votes (7 yes)
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  • KacyWatson

    Normal. But really unfortunate. You could get surgery. Or learn to love your body as it is.
    Sory if this comment seems shit.
    Well good luck :) regardless what you do.

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  • Boojum

    First, I hope you haven't paid anything for the subliminals, because that's just BS. I'm willing to believe that self-hypnosis and such things can help people break habits and alter their attitudes if they believe it will work, but you're not going to change your genetic predisposition to have breasts of a certain size, alter your hormone levels to affect their growth or shrink your breasts by such means. If that were possible, people would also be able to increase or decrease their height by listening to some woo-woo recordings, and only an idiot would believe that's possible.

    Obviously, the sort of bra you wear can reduce (or increase) the apparent size. Hell, if you really want to hide your breasts, get a nice floral bedsheet, cut a hole in the middle and wear that. This would drastically reduce the possibility of anyone noticing your breasts or any other part of your body (although choosing that style of clothing might attract attention for other reasons).

    I'm a guy, I've never been a boob-man, and I've never been able to get my head around bra sizings or capable of visualising a particular size of breasts. But from what I've seen after Googling 32DD, that isn't ridiculously huge.

    You don't talk about physical discomfort, but mention only the steps you've taken to try to prevent others from seeing your breasts. Therefore, I can only conclude that your main problem is body image issues, and I have to wonder if you'd be happiest if you had no breasts at all.

    Obviously, I have no idea whatsoever about the roots of this problem, but since it relates to a secondary sexual characteristic, I'm sure there's something sex-related at the bottom of it. I'm also sure that it's highly unlikely you're ever going to be a truly happy person until you learn to accept that you're a woman. The toss of the genetic dice at your conception decreed that you would be female and you'd have a certain body shape. You have a stark choice of either learning to accept yourself as you are, or going through life despising the body you inhabit, and possibly spending a lot of money on surgery in the search for some fantasy of perfection where you will finally be content.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I voted normal, because large breasts cause back pain, and I'd rather be free of back pain that have it as a result of a body part that attracts unwanted attention from creepy losers. If I could have a superpower it would be shapeshifting so I could be terrifyingly hideous whenever someone I don't care for is giving me unwanted attention. I honestly think B cups are the perfect size if one is blessed with a lean athletic physique.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    You said theyre small but too big? Wtf

    U got body acceptance issues i think

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    • dirtybirdy

      Maybe compared to other women that she knows, they are small, but she feels they are too big for her. It makes sense if you're a woman. But I'm wondering what size are they?

      I've seen women who are tiny little things with natural boobs the size of their head and that just ain't right

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

        I bet theyre super nice and perky. She should post them.

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        • dirtybirdy

          Behave

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          • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

            Blaaah i know

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        • raisinbran

          Every post about anything especially medical questions should come with a picture

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      • BHC_Fawn

        Yup, that's it. They're 32dd. I know they're not that big, but i feel really uncomfortable.

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        • dirtybirdy

          I seee...32 is small but dd....seems too big for your body. I get why you'd feel uncomfortable. Even at my thinnest Im a 34 but nowhere near dd.

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  • CDmale4fem

    It seems majority of females cant get them up high enough or out in front to get as much attention as possible from men (and some women).

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  • sun-tanning

    You sound like you do not look how your body looks. If you did you would be proud to show off your body and not hide it.

    Is there really some other problem here, like maybe you do not like the rest of your body and in your head you think your breast make you look bad?

    I suggest going to a nude beach and getting used to being seen naked.

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  • Tommythecaty

    “Ok so my breast is not that big...”

    Zzzzzzzzz 😌

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