Is it normal to hate my friends mother?

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My friend currently lives with her mother and I hate her a lot.

My friend often tells me how much she wants to move away from her, her mother would often spread so much lies about me saying that I am not fit for a friend or saying that I'm just a loser. Her mother seems to be all me, me, me with herself she doesn't care that she's depressed and doesn't care about her emotions when it's clearly hurting her.

My friend also uses my house as a safe spot this is mostly because my parents and I make her feel welcome but a big majority of the time her mother won't let her even to hang out with me half of the time even when I want to see her.

I wonder if what I'm describing is normal to have hate with all my might.

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    I can understand you wanting to help your friend. But hate is never tge answer. There's always 2 sides to every story.

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    • Ihidabody
      2 years ago

      "Hate is never the answer!". This comment shows idiocracy.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    It's normal to dislike and disagree with family members of friends, yes. I think it would be pretty hard for me to like someone who says so many negative things about me and dislikes me so much, too.

    There have been a few parents of friends I didn't like as well, and one was similar to how you described, only she strongly disliked everyone her daughter was friends with no matter who they were or what they did, and strongly discouraged her from continuing the friendship (in fact, she was a control freak and just cut off the friendships, herself by taking away my friend's methods of contact; her mom was a very bitter, lonely person with no family or friends besides her daughter, and I think it made her insanely jealous for her daughter to have anyone in her life besides her). A couple of others I disliked were just very self-absorbed and didn't care if anything they did negatively affected their kids as long as they got what they wanted.

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  • Ashes010
    2 years ago

    You sound like an awesome person to be doing that for your friend, yeah, I would hate that mother too and if she’s really that bad you could try reporting her or helping your friend get a job so they can start saving for a home to live on their own, and you guys can get away from that mother forever, but that’s all up to your guys initiative, plans, and if you’re legally adults

    Rooting for you though, and your hatred is normal and even understandable

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