Is it normal to hate my generation?

I hate my generation so much. Everything is so superficial and gimmicky. To be honest I don't really care about the music situation. There's still good music coming out; you just have to look for it and there is plenty of old music to keep anyone occupied. I'm talking more about the way people talk/act and who they idolize.

First of all, I hate cellphones. I think they're one of the worst things to happen to people. Obviously I have one because everyone else does but I wish I didn't need one. I swear to god people at my school talk more on their phones than in real life. Everyone is so focused on twitter, instagram and others that these social sites are starting to become the way people present themselves. If you don't have twitter or facebook people honestly think you're insane.

I also think kids nowadays are looking up to the wrong people. I don't necessarily think the celebrities nowadays are bad people. I just think that these celebrities have a certain image they have to put out and people take it so seriously. I know people that skip class, smoke and rob people just because they think it's cool and they'll be able to find meaning in it.

There's no innocence anymore because of the internet. Everyone assumes they know everything about everything. No one has respect for elders anymore because they think they know better.

Than there's the tv. It's all fucking terrible. I don't even watch new tv shows anymore. Looking back at old stuff like fast times at ridgemont high, freaks and geeks, and the wonder years you really got to wonder what happened to tv.

Obviously I'm only focusing on the bad but I still hate the direction the american culture is going. My dad still listens to the bands he loved as a teenager. He still remembers all the pieces of culture that made up who he was as a teenager. He tells me about all the crazy things they used to do just because there was nothing else to do(no computers or cellphones)and it makes me sad. I'm just sad because I feel like I'm not going to look back fondly on the things I was surrounded with as a teenager. Every goddamn piece of american culture nowadays is fueled by the desire for money. People will say they love something and forget about it the next week.

Am I right or do I just sound bitter? I'm only 18 so I can't say I have a ton of experience but that's partly why it bugs me. My time as a young person growing up is almost over and I just don't feel like I'm going to miss it that much. My teenage, growing up years were from about 2003 to now and honestly what the hell do I have to look back on.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • NothingSpecial

    Eh, I don't really agree. The only thing I agree with you on is the internet is changing what we're interested in. Kids these days aren't as interested in going outside or reading because video games and the internet are a very large part of our culture. What we're interested in obviously waxes and wanes depending on culture and society and I really don't think it's that bad of a thing, but whatever.

    What I find funny is how you assume people these days are "looking up to the wrong people". In the 50's, those who grew up in previous eras would have said that about those who looked up to Elvis. The fact people are looking up to the wrong people has nothing to do with today's culture losing it's morals. if anything, it has to do with the way society views morals. There will always be bad people existing in the world and people will always look up to people for the wrong reasons. It's just the way life is.

    As far as the whole American culture cares only about money, since when did you decide that was new and mostly associated with our current generation? This is the way our culture runs. People know how to make something popular to gain a profit and many people look into these things because lots of people feel a need to conform, relate or belong to people and they dislike being shamed when they don't follow something. People will go along with what other people do, so it's only natural to exploit something and turn it into a product for profit so that other people will buy it out of pressure. People have been doing that for centuries. "Fads" aren't a new thing at all.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    You'd know that this was normal and that this question has been submitted many times before if you weren't part of the vast majority of members of our Generation that weren't taught to read instructions and respect and follow the rules. This Generation feels that reading is for squares.

    I am just as bad, however, for I am fighting the futile battle of trying to get IIN posters to read the obvious text in front of them. I'm wasting my time. People don't like to read anymore. I'm going home. You kids have fun.

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    • justsomekidfromcanada

      You'll find a stick in your vagina. Gently remove it and apply a new tampon.

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Oh shit, your Mom must have left it in there when we were... uhh... nevermind...

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        • justsomekidfromcanada

          Good one. Except you're still a bitter, whiny bitch and have no idea who my mom is. Perhaps take your insults beyond the grade 6 level. Come on, you can do it.

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          • NeuroNeptunian

            Awh, and I'm sure you can do better than make snappy comments about my vagina and call me petty names. Come on, IIN is all about self improvement!

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            • justsomekidfromcanada

              If IIN is all about self improvement than why did you write a post on my story which says nothing productive and pretty much just babbles on about bullshit. My generation and by extension me don't read instructions and don't understand respect? My generation thinks reading is for squares? You must be a pretty fucking perfect person to be throwing around generalizations like that. Fuck you.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I hate your generation too it sucks.

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  • Charle44

    When you're a high school kid, you pretty much consume whatever culture they put in front of you. When you're in your early 20's, that's when you get cool, find the cutting edge stuff, and also learn a little more about earlier things. For me, at college I was listening to stuff that wouldn't become popular for another five years, and stuff that had been popular 20 years earlier.

    The good news is that you're about to become cool. The bad news is you'll also become a bit of a hipster, and then twenty years after that you'll neither know nor care what's cool. There are worse things.

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  • FocoUS

    Focus on the positive, like skydiving from the space.

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  • kelili

    There will always be change and some people resist to it and get frustated and some people adapt. There's no way to escape CHANGE

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    • justsomekidfromcanada

      That is true. You can't deny that it sucks though.

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      • kelili

        Yeah but it is more wise to adapt.

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  • dirtybirdy

    I think every generation feels that way with the modern things of the time. Damn kids listening to their A.M. radio programs at 10 pm. Wtf?!?!

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  • Cul-de-sac_Nightmare

    I respectfully disagree. This is the best time for me. All that evil technology you hate levels the playing field for me and my brethren. We will do well in your tech-centered "dystopia". People have ALWAYS been shallow, and people have ALWAYS been greedy. It's human nature. Look up today's crime rates compared to 20, even 10 years ago. Why don't you be thankful for your life expectancy and everything else you have?

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    • justsomekidfromcanada

      I am thankful for my life which is why I work my hardest everyday and try to treat others with respect. That being said I don't think I like the direction our society is going and I wanted to know if others share that opinion as well.

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  • I'm 26 and I feel much the same way. But I try to be more optimistic. There's still a lot of good in people and a lot of beauty in the world!

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    • justsomekidfromcanada

      Of course there is. We live in (probably) the most beautiful place in the universe. It's not like I cry myself to sleep at night or anything, it's just sort of a bummer. As you said though, it's always good to be optimistic.

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