Is it normal to hate the terms "pro-choice" and "pro-life"?

For the Democrats, what does "pro-choice" mean? Does it mean I can choose which food and drinks I can consume, even if they have poor nutritional value? Does it mean I can choose how I want my health insurance handled or if I need it at all? Does it mean I don't have to be told what kind of light bulb or toilet I'm allowed to have? Calling one of your stances pro-choice does not offset the fact that you're opposed to personal choice in literally every other issue it's possible to be opposed to choice in.

For the Republicans, what does "pro-life" mean? Does it mean getting rid of the barbaric practice of the death penalty? Does it mean taking reasonable measures to prevent potential murderers from getting their hands on guns? Does it mean a desperate man living on the streets shouldn't have to turn to a life of crime just to know where his next meal's coming from or that it's coming at all? Calling yourself pro-life for one issue does not cover up your consistent disrespect for people's well-being and downright sociopathy.

I'm tired of these loaded terms and the fuckheads who throw them around when discussing abortion. They should start using terms that actually mean what they mean, if you know what I mean.

Voting Results
74% Normal
Based on 38 votes (28 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 22 )
  • dappled

    I would agree. What's wrong with pro-abortion and anti-abortion? That's about the clearest way of describing each stance.

    While I'm at it, vegetarian is a stupid term. Vegetables are a minority of my diet. I am defined by not eating meat. Why pick just one thing (of the many) I do eat and label me that? People who eat vegetables often eat meat too. It makes no damn sense. I am probably more noodle-arian than vegetarian, anyway.

    I propose non-carnivore. I am *not* a vegetarian. I just don't eat meat. Non-carnivore covers that.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • VioletTrees

      You can be both pro-choice and anti-abortion. Some people are morally opposed to abortion, but understand that making abortion illegal would cause women to have dangerous and potentially deadly illegal abortions, for example.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • "Pro-abortion" implies that they support abortion in general regardless of the mother's wishes. That's not the case. They support the woman having her choice to either to keep the baby or abort it. Someone who's "pro-abortion" would only support the latter. The conservatives would have a field day if someone popularized a term like that.

      People who eat meat aren't carnivores, they're omnivores. You are too, because the specific monophagy or polyphagy of a species is determined by its physiology, not necessarily its actual diet. That's why cases of herbivores eating meat and carnivores eating plants don't cause the terms to be changed, their digestive systems are still best suited to a particular feeding behavior regardless of what they're actually eating at a given time. You can avoid meat all you want, but your teeth will always make you an omnivore.

      But keep trying, maybe you'll get it right eventually.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • dappled

        Of course it doesn't! Pro means "for". Pro does not mean "only". Pro-abortion does not mean "we can only abort children, there is no other option but to abort them all".

        You've made the same mistake with non-carnivore. A non-carnivore is someone who specifically does not eat meat. There is no implication about them eating anything else. A carnivore is someone who does eat meat. There is no implication about them eating anything else. If they eat everything (i.e. omni) they're an omnivore, but being a carnivore does not make them an omnivore.

        Being a carnivore doesn't preclude you from being an omnivore. Being a non-carnivore does preclude you from being an omnivore.

        Write yourself out a truth table. I don't eat some things, therefore I don't eat everything.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
          -
        • The "pro-" prefix means "in support of", not merely "tolerant of". Pronatalism is the belief that birth control should be restricted, not just that people should have the option of not using it. Pro-Zionists like Untermyer support that the Zionist goal be realized, not merely that Zionism exist. "Pro-life" insists that life be enforced, not that life simply exists for a certain option. If you are simply tolerant of something's existence, you are not pro-that thing. You're simply neutral and tolerant. Someone who's pro-something advocates it over what its opposite is. "Pro-abortion" people don't necessarily want people to get abortions, they just believe it should be an option. Therefore, "pro-abortion" is not the best possible term.

          You don't seem to get that all humans are non-carnivores. "Being a carnivore doesn't preclude you from being an omnivore." Yes. Yes it does. A carnivore isn't just anything that can eat meat, a carnivore species is geared to eating meat to the exclusion of eating plants. A carnivore does not (normally) eat plants because its digestive system does not handle them well. Being a carnivore and an omnivore are mutually exclusive, because by definition, a carnivore is not geared to eating plants. I don't know how many different ways I need to put it. These are defined terms with fixed meanings. Do they not teach life sciences in British schools? There are plenty of textbooks and encyclopedias available to help make up for where your state education has clearly failed you.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
            -
          • dappled

            I just looked this up and I was actually right all along. Well, according to the Oxford English Dictionary. I'm not sure where you're getting your information from. They define a carnivore as any animal that eats meat, and an omnivore as an animal that eats everything (they specifically say, i.e. not a vegetarian). I'm not going to repeat all of what I said in my previous post but it was right and I shouldn't have been thrown off course so easily.

            I looked up "pro" while I was there. It says reasoning in support of a hypothesis. Pro-abortion therefore means that if someone thinks they should have an abortion, someone who is pro-abortion would support their decision. If you apply this to "pro-life", it becomes a horribly mangled definition. But I think that's what your post was about.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
              -
            • You looked up a scientific term in a dictionary? I don't even know where to begin with that. Especially considering your obviously perfect source is published by a press whose works have contained such interesting claims as the chief language of Karnataka being Bengali or that siphoning works by atmospheric pressure. Obviously when they publish something that goes against what literally every other source on the subject says about something very basic, it must mean they're the only ones who have it right. Now, if you were a reasonable person, you would have instead picked up a book, any book, dedicated or with a section dedicated to the subject and gotten a more accurate definition. But apparently, you're not, and have no interest in picking up a book that seriously covers animal feeding behavior, perhaps because from the library emanates an aura of knowledge that intimidates you. You know, I used to think you were pretty cool dappled, but now it's obvious you're just as bad as wigsplitz and similarly draining to the reasoning ability of those who read your posts. I'm not going to bother anymore. It's like trying to explain things to a 4-year-old, who repeats the same silly things over and over and thinks if he does it enough, he'll eventually be right. I get enough of that bullshit from the people in this country, I don't need to look for it elsewhere.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
          • dappled

            They do teach the subject in schools but I chose not to study it. If I've made a mistake, fair enough, but I think people make mistakes daily and it doesn't call for a root and branch review of a national education system.

            Although, admittedly, ours could do with it if it's producing people like me.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
        • VioletTrees

          It SHOULDN'T mean that, but that's what anti-abortion people spin it to mean. It's easier to call ourselves "pro-choice" than it is to deal with that nonsense.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
            -
          • dappled

            I was being slightly mischievous with the truth, as I am sometimes wont to do. It's funny when what something actually means is different than what everyone thinks it means.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
    • dom180

      I heard on QI that the Vegetarian Society claims the word "vegetarian" comes not from the same root as "vegetable", but from the Latin "vegetus", which means "lively or vigorous". No mainstream dictionary agrees with them though, they all say it comes from "vegetable" too. I just thought it was quite interesting :P

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • dappled

        I just OED'd this one. The OED mentions veget- being the root (as opposed to vegetable) and says the word was spread by the Vegetarian Society (formed in Ramsgate in 1847) but then in the quotations, cites it in an article written in 1842, meaning The Vegetarian Society can't really lay claim to the word.

        Tell you what is interesting. They're saying it means lively and vigorous but the same root word can form vegetating (or persistent vegetative state) which is kind of the polar oppose of lively and vigorous. :)

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • NeuroNeptunian

    I like Anti-Fetus and Pro-Creation better.

    (Ha ha, get it? Pro-creation? Ah, you get it.)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Imsupernormal

    I hate the term "pro-choice" I'm straight up pro-abortion. The more abortions the better.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • dom180

    I think you're got to look at the terms in the context of the abortion debate and not be pedantic about it. Some people will always be pedantic, but in this case I think you've got to blame the people and not the terms.

    If we did make a change in the words, I don't think "pro-" and "anti-abortion" are the right ones to use instead.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • It is odd that two words that are not opposites life and choice are used as opposites.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • cantheist

    I'm actually pro-life and this website is turning me into a radical.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Legion

    I guess its like many other terms, sounds good for a while, untill people start using it to slam their opponents and it carries a negative connotation.

    its like how homosexual is used cause gay is considered hurtful. it used to be the opposite.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • ccjigsaw

    Is this story about word play??? My bran hertz pfffrrtt....

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • fullofhate78

    I call them "pro-birth" and "pro-control", because I think that's what "pro life" and "pro choice" are each about.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Terence_the_viking

    Sonic Boom

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • MissyLeyneous

    Not all Dems. are "pro-choice" and not all Reps. are "pro-life".

    I'm a former Republican, pro-choice Libertarian, who happens to be an Apathetic Religious Skeptic. These are all just labels.

    To me, pro-choice means the federal government can't tell you and me what to do with our bodies and our lives. The States have the Constitutional Right to make laws in this fashion, but not the Federal Government.

    Comment Hidden ( show )