Is it normal to have a crush on your cousin?

I'm a 18 years old female and I've had a crush on my cousin for the last 3 years. He's (33) 15 years older than me. I've always thought he was very good looking, it wasn't until I got to know him better that I started to like him. We didn't grow up together and he never really knew me as a baby or child. I sometimes dream about him and things we'd do, but we're related. Is it normal that I still want to do things with him?

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Based on 122 votes (83 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • Jill123

    I might sound strange but I don't think of having a romantic relationship with your cousin as "incest". It's not like he's your brother. And I heard that in some states it is perfectly legal to marry your cousin. Yes, it's normal to be attracted to him. That is something none of us can help. It's human. I read an interesting story once about a woman who found out years later that her husband of 20 years was really her cousin! She stayed happily married. Why not? Should she have broken a happy marriage just because she found out he's her cousin? And after 20 years of being happy and having two kids together? I know it sounds like a soap opera but according to the woman it's suppose to be true. Good Luck to you. But if he shows no interest, do the right thing and move on.

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  • EmBugz

    Only if you're in the south.

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  • GuessWho

    Being attracted to him is fine, Incest is not.

    You really should get over him, though, or it's going to cause problems for your future relationships.

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    • davesumba

      This world was found on incest.

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  • OtherSide

    It ain't incest if you use protection.

    btw, is his name Bubba, Jimmy-Ray or Billy-Bob?

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  • ToxicCrayons

    I'm the same. My cousin is a year older than me and we very rarely see each other. I saw him last month, after 7 years and we were acting really flirty. It was weird because my whole family was there and afterwards my mother told me he said he was surprised how good looking I was. Awkward. Luckily I won't have to see him for almost another decade.
    I think it's wrong if you grew up with your cousin and saw him often but if you rarely see each other and it doesn't even feel like you're related, it's natural.

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  • Μαχι

    I sure do think my cousin's hot.

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  • Askformykik

    Same here i like my cousin

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  • RoseIsabella

    Where are you from?

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  • SadoShaun&MasochistMarci

    GOOD GOD, GIRL! You should be topless, in front of him, on your knees... begging him to plop his Dick in your mouth. What are you waiting for?

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  • watcher2005

    The sexual urges are normal male-female stuff. Society says stay away from cousins, not Mother Nature. Do you think a dog asks another who their parents and grandparents are before they go at it? Hell no. It's going forth and multiplying. But I would be concerned about the age thing. Find another cousin closer to your own age.

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  • Seustewart

    I wanna bang my cousin. And my other cousins gf. Talk about hot!

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  • lover_your_lover

    if he is closer to your age i would say normal but thats a big gap

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  • iDontKnowYet

    Just stay cousins. If you ever do want more with him, it'll be up to him. I am not for that but it's your choice. And if you guys were to ever me together and have children and stuff . There are high risks of your offsprings to come out disabled. .

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