Is it normal to have a crush on your teacher

86% Normal
10 Comments

I WOULD NEVER TRY TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY TEACHER, OR EVEN TRY TO TELL HIM THIS. I am a senior in high school and for two years now, I've had a crush on my teacher who's 34, married and has kids...And I think it's totally f*cked up of me! I mean he's not like REALLY attractive but he's SO funny and nice and helpful and most other people agree with that, and it's not even that I wish I could "have" him, it's more a thought like "if he was my age and went to high school with me now, I totally would have dated him" or like "I'd totally have wanted to be his friend" is this normal?

Voting Results
86% Normal
Based on 81 votes (70 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 10 )
  • Flirty108
    11 years ago

    I have a crush on my teacher too. There is nothing wrong with that, just try to keep your thought, motions, and hands to yourself.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    3
    3
  • stupidassholeguy
    11 years ago

    Who the hell in their right minds would think this is normal?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • stupidassholeguy
    11 years ago

    Student/Teacher romance is NEVER normal. Find a guy YOUR AGE to go out with.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • heartslala
    11 years ago

    Ifs totally normal. Nothing to be ashamed of.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • ibreathelectric
    11 years ago

    Yep. Been there, done that. Lasted 2 years and my feelings got way out of control. I don't know if other people think its normal, but I do. Psychologically, he's an authority figure, known by all your peers (''famous" in a sense), and has a professionally caring relationship with you. Even if theyre not attractive, teachers are the center of attention at school. Plus he's older. All this combined leads to the illusion that you like him in the heat of the moment. Once you're not in his class anymore, it'll probably fade. that's what happened with me.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Crazystupidguyhome
    11 years ago

    okay...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • lovechicago
    11 years ago

    I've had a very attractive teacher before, I was in her class for 2 years so we talked every day, I eventually started to like her when she was really nice to me, she's so pretty and an awesome person, ooh I loved her :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I had a feeling that my attractive college teacher "liked me", or she disliked me.
    I was quiet in class unless spoken to. To be fair, the way I was was different from most people, if not all of them in my class. I would sit there with a bored look on my face, make an Origami flapping bird before I left a room (don't know why), and talked when spoken to.

    She would always stare at me, put her head down when she walked past me, and so on (example: When I open the door for her).

    To this day I don't know if she "liked" me or "hated" me. To be honest, I have given her no reason for both, but I have been hated by a guy for no reason other than having a full group of female friends.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    i always use to get wood when i saw my english teacher man she was fit

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You should "do" him. It will be something you'll be happy about later in life. Do everything with him.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1