Is it normal to have a cyber stalker?

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So i have a cyber stalker who calls me, sends me e-mails and eventually he came to my country.
It all began with just friendship on net and nothing else was planned.I haven't even met him in real life but after he came here he just won't stop contacting me. It has been going on for years now. The only thing he hasn't done yet is coming to my home. What can i do about it? Like i said i never met him in real life and hope i won't either. Is it normal

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Call the police on him. I would say give him a warning but that could only make him more persistent.

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  • RinTin
    12 years ago

    How does he keep getting a hold of you? Why don't you change your email and phone number so he stops? Hopefully if you have a Facebook you never added him...b/c even if you didn't say where you lived he could just click on your friends and find out...is your name in the phone book? Does he know your last name? Does he know where you work?

    I can't really think of a solution if he finds out where you live. You could get a restraining order but that wouldn't stop a true stalker who's obsessed with you. Wouldn't hurt though. Also if you gave him a warning it might backfire. Probably make him angry.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Call the police and press charges and get a restraining order against. Further measures you can take are: changing your phone number, email address and so on.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    Alright folks, thanks for the advices. I'll see what i can do.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Ugh, I've had similar problems. A couple of guys have gotten too pushy and kept texting me over and over saying the same thing. I think you should just ignore him. If you don't talk to him, he'll get tired of trying and move on. Good luck.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I have ignored him at all times.

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    Don't indulge him in any way. Don't answer his emails. Don't even read them if they have a read-receipt. Get caller ID and don't answer his calls. If he does somehow still make contact, tell him to leave you alone. If he persists beyond that, take it up with the police.

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  • GeorgeMcBob
    12 years ago

    Tell him you're Chris Hansen.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      I like to call you Chris HANDSOME...

      Horrible Boondocks reference go!

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