Is it normal to have akward, sexual situations with your own sister.
I'm a 24yo polish guy, who lives with his 19yo sister in one apartment since the beginning of October, when she began her studies on a university. I have always loved her and cared for her a lot, in my own way, but I won't bullshit you, we were never all that close and spent most of our lives not talking to ourselves all that much. And tho I've tried to be as helpful to her in the big city as I could, we kept it that way for most part of October, mostly sitting both in our own rooms when we were together home alone. It all changed somewhere in the middle of November, an a Sunday. She proposed me to have a couple of beers, we played cards, both got a bit drunk, talked together from 6 PM till about 4 AM. And no, we did not have any twisted, crazy sex on that night, or any other for that matter. But I got to have one of the greatest, most honest and fun conversation in my life, and for the first time in my life allowed myself to be the cynical, sarcastic, slightly rude and mean -self in front of my sister. And became surprised as she liked that, joked with me and didn't seem to mind, having a far more bitchy personality than I'd ever expect to see in a petite, blond, supposedly catholic teenager ( Yes, she is 19 and goes to church every sunday, I bullshit you not ). We acted like best friends since then. On the 14th of December she dumped her boyfriend. Had no good reason, just said she had enough of him and it didn't "click". Got drunk with me again. Asked if she can sleep next to me in my bed with a slightly shy, akward smile on her face. We did just that, laid on my bed together, me in my t-shirt and shorts, her in her PJ's. Both acting like we were doing the most normal thing in the world, but I couldn't stop being nervous and thinking "what the hell are we doing?" all the time. She hugged me and fell asleep. I had 2 hours of sleep at best on that night, feeling all excited and having no fucking clue what to make out of it. We've had breakfast together, and while I couldn't believe I just went to sleep with my adult sister sleeping next to me, she was her normal, playful self on that morning. Yesterday she went back to our parents home for christmas. Being an atheist and working I stayed home. We had all her baggage's in the car before, she was standing all dressed to leave in our apartment, the door to it was already open. And as I was saying my goodbye's, she closed the door for a second, gave me a hug, a short friendly kiss on the lips, said she'll miss me a lot and will be back on the 26th, and left after that. I tried to make nothing out of that, but the manner in which she closed the apartment door like she had something to hide, before kissing me on the lips...I just have no idea what to think now. As I know for a couple of hours, she also has a picture of me and her on her laptops wallpaper.
Also, despite all of the signals we have never talked about sex for a second. How can I be sure what is it all truly about before I decide what to do about it?
And to make it clear, as I probably need to, even though this is not supposed to sound like some twisted jerk off fantasy, I AM attracted to her, plus the taboo thing seems to be very, very hot. But try to answer me as if this is THE REAL FUCKING WORLD, not a japanese cartoon.
| Seduce your sister. | 955 | |
| Ignore your sister. | 51 | |
| Gently talk her out of it. | 121 | |
| Scold her and strongly talk her out of it. | 30 | |
| Get her some help. | 37 |