Is it normal to have never fit in a school

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I am 19 years old and I graduated last year. When I was in school I never could fit in with any group. I wasn't good at sports, Couldn't play a musical interment for shit, and I wasn't smart. I was the lowest of the low even when I was in band they made fun of me. I never went to a school dance or any school events. All I felt was depression and the people I hand out with now are drug heads. I was always looked at as the weird kid and I always will be.

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  • Vivien5
    10 years ago

    Hmm, I think that the fact that you couldn't play an instrument or be good at any sport isn't a big issue. What you have to do is respect yourself firstly because if you do that, then other people will respect you too. Secondly you have to chose properly the people you hang out with. If they mock you, surely they are not Friends. Remember, a friendship is not about quantity but quality. Put some standards when it comes to friendship and don't lower them for somebody. Thirdly, you can watch some tutorials on YouTube and then learn some things like making grafitti and origami, etc.:)

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  • familyguy63
    10 years ago

    it's called being a youngster! Youryoy

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  • Doctorknowsbest
    12 years ago

    Stop being a follower of losers. Nobody cares more about you than you. That's the truth and I think you can find a place to fit in wherever you would like too. Drug heads are only interested in seeing you worse off than them. Independence is a special quality and if you listen to a higher voice that's in you you will be a magnet for the people that you would like to have in your life. The only failure is not trying or giving up easily. Anything that is worth doing will not be easy. The satisfaction of achieving a goal is the power that will drive you to happiness. Drugs will take the best things about and strip them from your soul leaving you empty and alone. Don't cheat yourself out of life. Go to a Church or volunteer at a charity and if you try you will find what you are seeking.

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader
    12 years ago

    Me neither, but there's usually some nice people I can hang with.

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  • highhowru?
    12 years ago

    drugs are fun

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're nineteen, so if you go in to further educaions, be it sports, music, or educate maths, english etc, then you could get a good job, pay for further education for the other subjects, and so on. I don't fit in, either, but I prefer it that way. My point being is that if you don't like it that way, then try meet new people, perhaps try a new start at a new place to educate?

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  • nAt2017
    12 years ago

    I don't think anyone really fits in at school. It sounds like you had a pretty bad time, but you're done with it. Turn over a new leaf.

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