Is it normal to have played/experimented with friends when growing up?

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When I was growing up probably from the ages of 8-13 or so I remember multiple times where my friends and I would get naked. We never performed any actual sexual acts on each other just kinda of played naked and did odd things i guess. Every time this happened it was always with guy friends not that I think any of us were gay but more exploring and learning, I also clearly remember the first time I masturbated was at a sleepover where a older friend was telling me about it I was probably 12 or 13 at the time. Is this normal to do? Obviously as you grow older no one would want to admit doing stuff like this thats why I figured id ask the internet.

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  • AlanaTee
    6 years ago

    I'm not sure if being a girl is different to being a guy at that age, but me and my friends always used to be naked at sleep overs. We used to masturbate together, play with each others boobs and sometimes put things in each others vaginas for masturbation. So yes, perfectly normal, none of us were lesbians, just "experimenting."

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    My best friend and I from about 7-8 years old would always wind up in the same bed anytime we spent the night at each others house. We would then remove our underwear and giggle. That led to eventually touching each others private parts. Our first time to actually have any kind of sex was on the church van coming back from church camp. We were 13 and had been teasing each other about "suck my cock", cocksucker", stuff like that. We were in the back seat of a 15 passenger while the other kids were sleeping. My friend pulled his cock out and started masturbating, so, not to be outdone, I did the same. He finally reached over and took my cock in his hand and started jerking. So I reciprocated. He then leaned over and took my cock in his mouth and sucked on it until I unloaded my cum in his mouth. Not to be outdone, I did the same for him. We thought we had pretty much gone unnoticed, but a couple of weeks later, one of the girls sitting in front of us said she had heard us. We eventually (about 14) started doing anal and continued having sex all through high school. Something funny...my friend's grandfather was the van driver! 😜😜 So....I say normal!

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    most of the time i was with someone growing up i was either fucking them or they were trying to fuck me. in adulthood every man i met wanted gay sex with me. not some of them , all of them but one. who knows ? even that one

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    • [Old Memory]
      6 years ago

      Wish I could have been your friend!

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Kids are wired to be curious; it's how we learn about the world and ourselves.

    I don't recall ever doing this, but then I grew up in a large family, so there weren't many mysteries to me when it came to male and female anatomy.

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