Is it normal to have separation anxiety over a same sex friend?

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I'm 22 and a dude and I've been best friends with this guy since I was a kid, we room together now during college. We are both sexually straight but have been platonically committed on and off with each other under wraps, no kissin' or cuddlin' or any of that, just some good hearted American dream bromance type shit. So yeah, really bonded and connected with the guy. Anyway, I get anxiety real bad when he isn't around, and get real depressed if he's gone for days at a time. I really worry about him is all and get nervous he might not come back or something. It gets to be kinda handicapping at times if he's gone long.

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  • Ban_all_sex-obsessed_retards
    7 years ago | pl

    The way that you took half the post to explain you're not gay, makes you sound pretty gay.

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  • Hanz24
    6 years ago

    As far as normal goes... I won't say that it is a case of complete abnormality, speaking from a psychological point of Refrance I would say that what's going on here is a simple case of co-dependancy which has gone a tad to far, but that in itself is normal, we all go through it at some point. It's great that you have such a close relationship with your bud, but I think that, as you have mentioned, it affects your daily function, makes it Un healthy (unless there are some latent Gay urges). <~ which might actually make a bit of sense and this realization of anxiety when he is gone might be life telling you that there is something going on. But either way, it needs to be expressed or it might manifest in some weird obsession with this person and that I can say is abnormal and dangerous to your own mental health.

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  • curiousk1d
    7 years ago

    My best friend and I smoke weed and cuddle with each other in bed. I'm usually the big spoon, nothing sexual, just some good old affection with each other. I'm more of a touchy feely kinda guy. But yeah, my best friend never minds it! I just think he is so cute and hot with his sleeved up tattoos on both arms.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    So just tell him that you are curious and want to experiment with giving him a blowjob. That what it sounded like to me.

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