Is it normal to have this kind of dream?

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Hey everyone. I’m new to this website and well... I have no other place to turn to. Anyway I had this dream where I got raped by a friend who I believe is very toxic. However here’s how the dream went:

Okay so anyway, I go over to his place for a sleepover and it’s just me. And this is when I meet his so called boyfriend and apparently he was real- (in real life this friend keeps saying he’s real but it’s a online thing. I doubt it.) I only see him once and he just stays in another room of the house. And I ask him what’s up with him and he doesn’t answer. Anyway I have to sleep on the floor so I don’t mind that but it’s in his room though. Anyway I’m sleeping on the floor and then he began to come onto me and it went so far let’s just say he was probing me and I basically started crying and I decided to let him do this to me. Even though I don’t like it at all. Anyway it becomes daylight and apparently I fell asleep so I don’t know if I got raped but I wanted to leave so I go over to take my stuff but it’s missing. So I go downstairs and everyone is waiting for me- including his mom and dad. I explained to them what happened and then he yelled and said: “It was my boyfriend!” And then I said, “Oh it was...? Then how do I know it’s not YOU.” And then his face went dead and I still can’t find my stuff so I decide to just leave without it, a vision of my phone showed in my head but I didn’t care. I just wanted to leave. And just as I was about to leave, he grabbed me by my shoulders and began stroking my hair. I am clearly uncomfortable and I began pushing him away and keep saying no. And then out of no where he’s like: “I can give you your stuff back. Just put a body part on that chair and I’ll see how willing you are to get your phone and everything back. I love you!” I’m still scared by the way, so I ran off and jumped over a fence and began to run back home- and that’s where it ends...

I’m really scared of this dream because this person I know in real life well, he seemed so nice at first but then he started showing signs of jealousy towards my sex life with my boyfriend and even cuddles. He even tells us to stop being loveable- like he’s in control of our relationship.

I don’t know... could anyone be able to explain what this dream could mean and why my own friend is being well... a asshole?

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  • DaddySaidStayAwayFromJuliet
    5 years ago

    Hey.
    This does not mean he will rape you, a dream about rape can just indicate that deep down you’re acknowledging the fact he thinks he can try and control people through being toxic, it’s your brain putting things into a weird perspective, and unfortunately a common way of somebody toxic trying to prove they’re in control of someone is rape (again, this doesn’t mean he will do that, you mentioned him being jealous of your sex Life so he evidently thinks he should have some form of control over you)
    Second, cut that bitch out of your life.
    You deserve better friends than some jealous little asshole.

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