Is it normal to have thoughts
my wife and been married over 35 years and happy .last few years our sex life just stopped and been honest got used to it . but last month at a friends reunion myself and my wifes friend were chatting about life and then under the table we toucheded hands.we looked at eachther and never said a word . later that night i got a text saying need to talk and i met up with her.we ended up making love . and to be honest it felf amazing but the gut is eatig both of us up .we both in same bout as married long time no sexual contact till now and bothdont want to stop