Is it normal to intensely crave sex as a virgin?

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I'm 19 and a virgin. I've been in a good number of relationships, but they were never long or serious enough for me to feel like I wanted to "give it up", if you will. I have friends who have had sex and while they enjoy it-- they don't think about it/talk about it nearly as much as i do. I CONSTANTLY think about sexual things and... i take care of my thoughts frequently. is it normal to crave something you don't even know anything about?

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  • oneifthesedays1980
    12 years ago

    Damn I have never seen so many horny women.... geez

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  • ivanchikova
    12 years ago

    it's totally normal... i was the same starting at age 13. it's a natural human function, our bodies know what to do far before our minds when it comes to sex, so it's only natural to desire it. some people just aren't sexual and don't think about it as much, but chances are you will love it once you start, because that's what happened to me! and i waited for the right guy ;)

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  • iKnowYouLikeIt
    12 years ago | pl

    I crave it all the time. <3 I'm just one of the many horny virgin chicks. :)

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    • jefferzz04
      12 years ago

      hello there :) <3

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  • lust
    12 years ago | pl

    I crave sex all the time, it's our damn hormones.

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  • alishwag
    12 years ago

    I'm no longer a virgin, but i've only been with one guy my whole life. We're still together and the sex is amazing. But when I go a day, or even half a day, without having sex I start to get cranky. I seem to need it, think about it, want it, do it more often than most females. I also find it hard to masturbate, it really doesn't do the job for me. I envy the fact that guys can just jack off & jizz & be satisfied. for girls it takes so much more.

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  • slt_girl
    12 years ago

    I have this same problem! I'm a virgin. It seems like all I crave is sex! I just want the connection between someone. I think it's normal. Even more normal because we are virgins. I think once we have sex we will still crave it but in a different way. When I masturbate I want it more and more. Try masturbating if you haven't yet.

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    • shuggy-chan
      12 years ago

      well im a guy and i was similar to u guy. then oe day i was really depressed and o slept with a girl i didnt really like, but i knew liked me. and it suck so much, i even tried it a 2nd time with her just to see if it got better, it didnt. so i say stick with holding out till u get a special person, worthy of losing it too

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    • ollieoil
      12 years ago

      hey slt Ill help you...

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    • zucchini
      12 years ago

      I have the same thing but I can never seem to masturbate!

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    • MarieWantsIt
      12 years ago

      My husband works away a lot, and sometimes I spend a whole evening pleasuring myself. I buy a bottle of wine on the way home from the office and a courgette, which I lubricate with olive oil. It can be as good as sex sometimes. It has been so good at times that I have kept going until way past my normal bed time.

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    • averageman
      12 years ago

      i have slept with 5 girls and can safely say i only had a connect with 2 of them. sad isnt it? so id say hold on. im an 18 guy and after girls started being more interested in me i sorta went a bit sex crazy. a confidence boost yes but most of the times with girls i didnt like were awful! it was nothing they were doing wrong its just i didnt feel the same way.
      However the best sex has been with the minority, the ones i had slight feelings for

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      • Ltlartist
        12 years ago

        averageman, i think you need more respect for the women you get in relationships with- its not attractive that youve slept with so many girls...

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  • crissyabear
    12 years ago

    You always want what you can't have even more.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oh my gosh! I was going to post this EXACT story! Age and everything it's weird..but then I came across this and decided no need. Now that I know someone else is out there thinking this I think it's normal ;)

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    • seabird_71
      12 years ago

      It's so weird, I'm 19 too and was honestly going to post this exact same question. I'm a virgin too and I am addicted to reading porn, not watching it, but reading about it and I tend to masturbate quite often although I've never been with someone because I haven't met anyone that I've trusted enough. I'm afraid it'll hurt too much.

      So it's nice to know that there are others my age going through the same thing.

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  • bigbob101
    12 years ago

    Yes it is normal but dont worry the more you wait for sex the better I have the outmost respect for a woman who waits shows self control your just horny because your curious if you really want to know what it is like finger yourself and then imagine it being 5 times bigger

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  • pumalover
    12 years ago

    Do you it over the phone
    I do it all the time and it's fun.

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  • Southernbelle
    12 years ago

    This is definitley normal! Im in the same boat with yall

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  • YuppieYeahYo
    12 years ago

    You horny bastard! (jokeingly)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    same here! -,- perfectly normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    im 13 and feel it already who wants it ;)

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Lol ur number?

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  • smr
    12 years ago

    I am in exactly the same boat

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    hello their... ;)

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  • curiousmelon
    12 years ago

    it is perfectly normal,and now is the time to have sex!Bye bye virginity!!!

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  • happygurl
    11 years ago

    I want sex sooooooo bad and finger myself frequently but it is like I need it every minute of every day.

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  • dimples7
    11 years ago

    I am going to be 30 this year and I'm a virgin. I think I crave sex and I think that my biological clock is ticking. I don't really date much cause I haven't met a man that I'm that into. My 1st boyfriend is the only man that I ever thought I'd be with but we broke up years ago. I want the full package in a man, is that wrong? Iwaited this long so I want a man that makes me happy

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  • xylazai
    11 years ago

    I'm a 19 year old girl & I have this exact problem! I feel so damn horny all the time, but I don't have anyone I'd trust to lose it to right now. Plus I grapple with whether its the right or wrong thing to do because I don't want to be a slut. Ugh. It just sucks to feel like this. All I crave right now is physical contact with someone! I hope my hormones calm down on before I do something crazy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oh my god girl! I have THE SAME ISSUE. I just asked the same sort of question :( it's nice to know its not just me. I think I might go crazy though from deprivation :/

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  • eggsandbacon
    12 years ago

    yes very normal becuz thts happened to me...i'd lust for it then the first time i was touched it was fantastic...the first time id had sex was outta this world...i was a horny girl walkin nn released ssooo much on this boys fingers

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  • 250call
    12 years ago

    over the past fex days ive had like some kinda hormone shockwave.

    I ejaculated for the first time, i masterbate evry night, and i can help looking at nude photos.

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  • 0gSwaqq412
    12 years ago

    Come do me ?!!

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  • iminloved
    12 years ago

    its normal (:

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  • SEWnanist23
    12 years ago

    I opt to hope that people can also come out as Onanists as well. I hate the celebate label, that sounds to asexual to me when I like masturbating. Everyone is pressured to pleasure another person and itentify with either Straight, Bi-sexual, or Gay there's also an asexual option but no one admits to the Onanist one.

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  • normalbroad
    12 years ago

    I believe it's normal I mean you are old enough and as your getting older your hormones are changing (:

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  • Angycohen123
    12 years ago

    I sneak in2 my parents room put a lil lube on my hands n start it feels amazin

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    • ollieoil
      12 years ago

      hey angy ill help you loose it, where are you from x

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      • Angycohen123
        12 years ago

        How old are u and where do u live soz 4 late reply I haven't been on this site in a while

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