Is it normal to keep the truth from ur gf

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My gf was doing AI behind my back, I would have been fine with it but she decided to keep it to herself instead of making decisions together, then at some point I found out there was actually NI that occurred when I found out I decided to have sex with the guy because I didn't want to have to suffer alone with how hard kt was to deal with finding out. If I was told before hand I would have been okay with it so don't really understand why the lies. Anyway now we both might be pregnant.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    Yikes. This is quite the ordeal.

    Sounds like there are a lot of communication issues in your relationship, as well as issues of other types. It would probably be wise to seek couples counseling if you intend to try to make things work. Making decisions this big without consideration for each other is a big red flag, however.

    Whatever comes out of it, I hope both of you will do what's best for the babies if you are indeed pregnant.

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    • PurpleThunder
      2 years ago

      You're absolutely right there is no way it can go forward without couples counselling. How ever I'm not sure I will go forward with it as she has put a DVO on me not sure if in spite or she thought it would have eliminated the ability on my end to argue about it. Either way she's spinning out because the courts decided no contact whatsoever on my end, and she's saying she wants to change it. The fact she said she wants the terms changed and not rid of it makes me think there was ulterior motives.

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      • bbrown95
        2 years ago

        It sadly may be time to cut your losses, then. Sounds like a bad deal.

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        • PurpleThunder
          2 years ago

          For real this is serious she's been struggling with addiction and mental health, so I do empathise but I'm starting to think I've been too patient and its time to let it go. Besides she'll legit need a DVO for real from my mother whome said she is no longer welcome to her house. Not really but all jokes aside she's destroyed family relations on both sides.

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  • Boojum
    2 years ago

    For anyone who's mystified by this OP because the poster believes that others can either read her mind or all know the abbreviations that she uses with few contextual clues, the best I can figure out is this:

    AI = Artificial insemination

    NI = Natural insemination (aka sex without contraception to male orgasm)

    DVO = In Australia, a Domestic Violence Order which is supposed to prevent a person harassing or threatening another person, especially a current or former partner or spouse. (As if that ever actually works.)

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    • PurpleThunder
      2 years ago

      She's told me that her mother is responsible for the DVO and she was blind sided and taken to the police station without knowing where they were going mostly because she was about to move in with me and her mother cannot accept our relationship and that she intends to rebut the false allegations against me and there is paperwork being sent for another court date.

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  • GaelicPotato
    2 years ago

    Lol.

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