Is it normal to lie about trivial things all the time?

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When it comes to discussing my interests - music, books, films, whatever - I almost always give the opposite opinion to the one I actually hold. For instance, if someone asked me if I liked The French Connection, I would more than likely tell them that I hated it despite it being one of my favourite films.

It doesn't extend to important things or anything that has a real impact if I lie about it, just my interests and preferences. I just dislike the idea of someone knowing things about me and having things over on me so much that I feel more comfortable misleading them about small things like that.

So, is it just me? Or do other people do this too?

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Based on 64 votes (28 yes)
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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    It's very normal to worry about what people think about you. It's not normal to be so paranoid as to think that everything that you tell them will be held over your head. Sounds like you've had some bad experiences with people in the past.

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  • GlassDarkly31
    12 years ago

    Take one day. Just one day. Do nothing but think the truth and speak the truth. You will feel liberated. Give it a try. The truth is fun!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I hate a liar and often wonder what's the point in lying - the truth is just so much easier.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    I say no. I hate it when people lie to me! When someone lies to me, I never treat them the same way I treat my friends.

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  • WeirdoFromEarth
    12 years ago

    I say "no" because I don't think it's a good thing for you even if it's trivial. A person who likes the same things is a friend to you. Now, I guess I understand that if you dislike a person it may bother you to know they like the same things as you--like your ex haha. I do the same though but only because I'm afraid they will hate it or that I will jinx myself if I tell everyone my aspirations or likes in life.

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