Is it normal to like a thing but dislike it's associated ideas?
Ok this sounds a little more complicated than it is, i think.
Basically one example would be-
I dyed my bangs an unnatural color, and I find it to be aesthetically pleasing and go well with the rest of my look, but I don't like that inevitably people will assume things about me based on this aesthetic choice. While some things I must admit are true, I don't like the idea of people assuming they know those things based off of that specific factor.
For me this idea also goes for other things ranging from jewelry to political ideology.