Is it normal to love an older female teacher?

Hey so yes this is bona fide kid writing about a so called "teacher crush" Ok so I like this teacher like a mother, she's so wonderful and despite being over 30 years older we are so similar. Maybe my bias but she did say I'm a lot like her. I've known her for over two years and under her tuteledge we've both been through a LOT. A student died, my friend got pregnant, my mom nearly died, the teacher got in a car accident and in between all of this were weekly club meetings where I saw her or her class (had her once, then another lady, then her again). The stress of everything got to me and she was the only one to calm me down. For lack of a better word, I'm obsessed. I read every single thing she posts on facebook, I glean any new info about her from my friends, I purposely walk by her class etc. She means so much to me and she even told me that there's always that one student that really makes her year worthwhile. What to do..what to do? Similar stories, suggestions, is this normal or do I have psychological issues?

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Based on 57 votes (43 yes)
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  • almox21

    I always wanted to bone teachers with big booties! ;3

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  • Geneva5

    Does the teacher do anal ?

    Maybe you should smoke crack together ?

    Ps: I am a wrestling ninja !

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  • She needs help, if you're gonna be inappropriate about it don't say anything! If this was my daughter I would at least try to reason with her.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Shit, I'm really sorry for the typos, but I'm writing on my iPhone & it keeps autocorrecting things:(

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  • Avant-Garde

    *isn't

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  • Avant-Garde

    It's okay to have feelings for your teacher. She seems to be very understanding.

    Getting obsessed with her probably ISVs good idea as you might end up scaring her. Twice I got crushes on people older than me and I ended up not being able to properly express myself. Therefore, I got obsessed and inadvertently scared them:(
    I ruined potentially good relationships and at the time I was angry at me mistakes, but now I see that it was for the best. There was something kinda of about them... Like bad crazy!

    If she starts acting inappropriately with you, then that's not good either. If you both truly love each other, than you should both wait until your of age. Otherwise, there could be serious issues stemming from this "Relationship".

    If you are of age, then perhaps I relationship could work out, if so act cool and romance her like there's no tomorrow.

    Good luck!

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    • princessking

      Yes, and I wouldn't want to scare her! No, I don't want a relationship per se (she's been married longer than I've been alive, as in an over 30 year age gap), but being friends is an option. She's someone great who I connected with the first day I met her and I'd love for her to stay in my life :)

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  • SwimBikeRun

    Is the same poster as the comment above then. Yes. You do need help of some sort. Whether the teacher is recipprocating this or not it is not normal.

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    • princessking

      no it isn't, this is me the original poster. I told her I like her you see (over the internet..) and she's been quite nice and supportive but I just dunno if I'm in the right place mentally. If I can let her go eventually..

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  • SwimBikeRun

    If this

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  • Hi! I am a student too and I have a teacher that approached via facebook before even see me! I love her more than everyone in my life after some months of knowing her! She loves me very very much.. I dont know how to explain that but we look exactly the same..Our faces, our facial features and our characters are exactly the same..I started thinking that I may be adopted and she may be my mother.. However I love her more than everyone in that world!

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  • jellyboob69

    Ok so put her in a can and drive the Honda well away from wands the fish, just incase Jesus want 4 tacos from burger king no one wants to suck eggs for untill homecomings over right guys? Praise Jesus x

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